Should I be angry? Should he have known better?

Question

My husband and I are very sexually active. We have s*x pretty much every day (and enjoy every minute of it!). I'm comfortable admitting that, but not talking about the nitty gritty graphic details. I found out a few days ago that my husband had been doing just that with a friend of his. I told him that I don't want him to do it again, and he was fine with that. I'm still angry though, and I can't pinpoint why. Do I have a right to be angry on this? Should he have known better? He was very sweet about it when I asked him not to continue. I just feel like he shouldn't have shared stuff like that in the first place.

Answer 1

wut u do n the privacy of ur bedroom is ur business.  u hav the right 2 b upset because ur husband shared intimate details of wut goes on n ur bed.  personally i don't think details about a couples s*x life should b shared.  it can lead 2 problems n the future.

Answer 2

He probably was bragging, cannot imagine he meant anything bad about it.  You know him better than any of us... is he a mean guy?  If not, then I would not give it much more thought.

Answer 3

You are feeling angry cause it felt like a trust issue. If he respected your wish let it go. Have you never shared with a girl friend any s*x issues. Men are conquerors and want to share their conquer. It was more of a bragging right that you can have this good s*x life and do things.

Answer 4

yes you have the right to be angry. yes he should have known better. that is totally disrespectful. sharing info like that with others makes it nasty and not so intimate and special anymore.

Answer 5

You have every right to feel anger ,,,, You have every right to ask and expect him to discontinue this activity ,,,, He should have known better in the first place ,,,, This throws into focus the questions concerning how genuine his feelings are for you to begin with ,,,,You are the only one that can determine that though ,,,, Your willingness to carry on shows you to be a very broad minded and forgiving person but I can understand that burning little point of fire you feel or unrest deep down inside you ,,,, Regardless of how willing you are to forgive and forget he still hurt you and seriously so ,,,,  He's the one that hurt you but it's you that has to deal with it ,,,, I'm sitting here thinking about this and I wish this had never happened to you ,,,,  

There is the factor that we are all human and none of us are infallible ,,,, Every one can make mistakes and do sometimes ,,,, But still ,,,,  You can reason this away till you are blue in the face but there's still that little nagging point of unrest deep down ,,,, I think it's very commendable on your part that you seem to be taking this so well and are willing to carry on ,,,,  Not many people would be so gracious ,,,, I truly hope you can arrive at a workable solution to this issue ,,,, I wonder if he knows just how lucky he is to have you ,,,, You are carrying your marriage vows to the limit where this is concerned ,,,, The for better or worse thing ,,,,   Take care girll and I wish the very best for you ,,,,  Yoda said this ,,,,,  //