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Should I be ashamed?

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My little sister and I were separated when we were little when our parents got divorced. I hadn't had any contact with her or my father at all after the divorce. She was to live with our father, and I was to live with our mother. She is two years younger than I am. I am now 27 and she is 25.

Anyway, I met up with a stunning redhead after work at a coffee shop. We started to flirt a lot with each other and I invited her over to my house. She accepted, and I drove us over to my small house. She seemed really nice and I thought she was pretty s**y, and she seemed to think the same of me. Within the next hour or two, we were both in bed and had s*x.

After this had happened, we got each others numbers. Over the course of the week, we had s*x daily and I started to like her a lot. We started to tell each other more about ourselves, and eventually I asked her her last name. It was the same name as mine. I was shocked and told her we had the same last name. I was starting to get a little scared at this point.

Then, we started discussing our parents and again, we stumbled upon a similar matter. Both of our parents were divorced, she was sent to live with her father and her brother to their mother. Same with me. She told me her brother was two years older than she was. By this point, it became apparent to us; we had just taken part in incest. But also by this point, we had feelings for each other and we didn't want to let go. We are still together and I'm wondering if I should be ashamed? I really don't want to let go of her...

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  1. that's is weird. you had s*x with your sister i think you should talk to her. your gf/ sis


  2. wow...that's kinda nasty..haha big time..

    but it actually happens more than you think..

    if ya'll really care about each other...i mean REALLY

    care about each other...i guess ya'll could work it  out...

    some how.

  3. Don't be ashamed, it's not your fault.  Are you postitive she's your sister?  Because you have feelings for each other, I would definitely make sure you are related before assuming you are.  If you have questions, I would go see a religious figure or older person whom you respect.  Get their opinion.  Maybe (and this is just a possibility) the reason you get along so well is because you are related and you would be happy just being friendly siblings.  If, however, there are stronger feelings and you don't know what to do, I would definitely talk to  your sister and see how she feels.  Maybe you guys could see a therapist, who would help you put the situation in perspective.  It's your life, you both should decide together what you want to do.  At the same time, you might want to consult someone who you feel would give you a good answer, such as a coworker or therapist who understands the situation.  Also, and this is not to make you feel bad, just to inform you, there are complications with incest, such as birth defects.  You might want to research the situation fully, I'm sure there are plenty of books or websites that have a lot of answers.

  4. if she is your sister thats incest, illegal, sick, wrong so be ashamed and stop the intimacy now eeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

  5. u should! y would you ever go that far without even learning anything about each other or even her last name?!?!?!

  6. omg this is friken weird not going to lie haha dude just stop it's weird u screwed your sister

  7. Holy c**p thats weird and your saying you dont want to let go of her? yous are shes ur sister your going to have a lot in commen!

  8. Ew, that's disgusting! She's your SISTER!

  9. Thats a little wierd.

    You shouldn't be ashamed, you should of gotten to know each other more  before you did that stuff.lol.

    Just dont do it again.

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  10. You shouldn't be ashamed of it because you weren't to know. It would probably be best not to tell your parents or friends, etc as they might not see it the same way. I really hope you try to get things back to "normal" and maybe try talking things through with her. I have heard of things like this happen before, so it's not that uncommon.

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  11. Haha. Yeah, and when you guys are having s*x you can have her moan "Im your sister, Im your sister".

  12. u dont need to be ashamed...its not ur fault... i heard this story that these two people loved each other a lot and they got married but a couple days after the wedding...they found out they were twins separated at birth...so it was not a legal marrige...it was so sad...try to find new people...i know it will be tough...but try to think of urselfs  than sibling than a couple findsomeone new....and tell her to find someone new...it wont be easy and it will take a long time...but u dont rlly have another choice...

    srry =[

  13. OMG! is this real!

    ****! you had s*x with your sister!

    you dont want to let go her? are u sick?

    you ****** ur sis

  14. Well, it seems to me that you shouldn't be ashamed and you can't help how you feel towards someone. Just make sure you don't have a baby with her..

  15. Okay, dude, I know you didn't know that she was your sister. But now you do. Don't keep this relationship up. She is your sister! Stop the relationship and apologize for the inconvenience.

  16. retarded babies.

  17. its not right! imagine if u have a child with her...the baby might come out deformed

  18. There's nothing to be ashamed of at all, it's perfectly fine.  =]

  19. It's difficult to say. Something like that will be difficult to hide. I'm not going to say don't have a relationship, but she is your sister, even if you didn't know it.

  20. thats a little wierd.

    im sorry, but you should let her go.

    you should of asked her last name

    in the begginig.

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