Should I be concerned if I found out my husband has been taking viagra and hadn't even mentioned it to me? ?

Question

Should I be concerned if I found out my husband has been taking viagra and hadn't even mentioned it to me? ?

Answer 1

I would just say something in a non embarrising that he could of told you.If you know where his pills are keep track of them If five pills are missing in a week and you only had s*x 1 time than worry

Answer 2

He may be embarrassed to admit he needs it or may  not really need it but just thinks he'll be even better with it - either way sounds like a confidence issue is part of this. My only concern would be that I was the one he bought it for. If you are absolutely sure that you are the only lover in his life - great! be happy that he thought that much about pleasing you. BUT if you have any doubts, keep tabs on the number of little blue pills in his bottle & how often you two use them. Some men do want to try out their newfound ability with another playmate.  

Answer 3

It's an embarrassing problem to talk about, he probably just couldn't find a way to say.  As long as he's using the Viagra for your relationship and not off somewhere else, I wouldn't worry about it.

Answer 4

Any time there is a lack of communication in a marriage,that is a problem. However, this is a sensitive subject with men. Don't think that there is someone else just because he is taking viagra.. It probably is that he was feeling inadequate in bed with you and wanted to make sure he had the best chance of pleasing you. This needs to be discussed. Ask why he couldn't talk to you about it. Be supportive and loving. Tell him that you are happy he is thinking of you and your sexual relationship. Give him support. This way, if something else was going on you will be able to see it in his eyes. Good luck. My guess is that he was trying to please you.  

Answer 5

Has the s*x been really good, or is he that lame?

Answer 6

if you aren't gettin' any then VERY

Answer 7

he shouldve told you, but he probably was embarassed as he apparently has a problem. Just be supportive and ask him to try without it.