Should I be grossed out?

Question

My closest guy friend was over my house on Friday night and we were smoking a blunt and watching movies. He was exhausted and ended up sleeping over because anyway he and I had plans with mutual friends the following afternoon. In the morning I took a shower and left him alone in my room. Later on, that Saturday night, after taking a few shots he playfully admitted to watching internet p**n and masturbating in my room when i was showering earlier that morning. I understand you men are dogs and he hadn't had privacy but wtf? I'm really grossed out. Am I being prude? Should i just let it slide and never leave him alone in my room again? I never would have expected him to violate my trust like that... Am I over reacting?

Answer 1

oh and u women never do anything nasty? What about how u all pick your nose all the time and splatter p**p all over the toilet bowl? Grow up

Answer 2

may be he caught a glimpse of you half-naked, heading for the shower? maybe he was fantasizing about you? maybe that's exactly why he told you, maybe he was hoping that you were going to ask for more details.

Answer 3

You have the right to be grossed out. He performed a private act in YOUR living space. It's your private space not his. It's like someone going into your room and peeing in it.

You might want to politely tell him that you would prefer he not do it in your bedroom again.

Answer 4

its weird that he admitted it mainly. at least he wasnt watching you in the shower hm?

Answer 5

I do think that's a little weird, and you have the right to feel uncomfortable.  

Answer 6

I could be wrong here but i think he is just being a guy. he is oversharing though and make it clear just as lplayfully that you don't want to hear about it and if he does it in your room again he will be going over your stuff with the freakin bleach and ajax :]