Should I be her friend or not?

Question

Ok I have this friend, and when it's just me and her talking she is really nice! and I know I can talk to her about anything. But at school she makes fun of me, just so she can look cool. I know she shouldn't do that but I can talk to her about my mom who passed away, and I can't talk to anyone else about that! Should I be her friend or not? Please help me!

Answer 1

if she is ur frnd u shud talk to her that u dont like all these things what she is doing. if she is ur true frnd  she ll surely understand.

Answer 2

i had the exact same problem with a friend of mine, i could tell her everything, and she told me everything (when it was just us 2) ut at school she was mean and acted all cool and stuff. what happened was i tol her that she was doing that and that she was acting all fake and stuff at school adn aroud other people. adn she flipped out and got all  "oh my gosh i thught we were friends, why would you think of me in such a horrible way!" type thing. but she knew it was true. everyone who acts different around certain people knows they are beoing fake. but this made her realize that it was really affecting me, an our friendship. so she stopped, nad we are very truthful and best friends no matter who we are with now.

i would say try what i did and tell her. it will take a long time, especially if she is the type that rarely "forgives and forgets" (like my friend was) but in the end you will be friends. all that will happen is a big dramatic fight, but if both of you really want to stay friends, you will come out of it better friends than ever. but your friend could react dfferently. but despite everything i wrote, i would say the bottom line is to tell her how you feel, you tell each other everything right?

Answer 3

no.this is not friendship,in this relation keep ur mind open nd share all topics with ur friend.

Answer 4

u r right that she make fun of u just to look cool.

n i also understand u can talk only to her abt ur mother.

i am sure she is ur friend n good human being.

just talk to her abt this. i am sure she will never make fun of u again

and in fact ur friendship will strengthen.

if she still doesnt understand.

leave her.

make any other good friends

there is no dearth of good people find one of them . its enough.

good luck

Answer 5

u would be a friend to her, but u must maintain u r diginity towards her. then u will over come that problem.

Answer 6

She seems a friend of yours who likes fun. So not just talk to her, share fun and anjoy her company.

Answer 7

look dear nobody can understand without speaking so you have to express your veiw in front of her if you are good freind, she also thiks so.

Answer 8

YES  

Answer 9

Yes why not.

Answer 10

maybe she makes fun of you because she knows u wont mind and you guys are soo close..maybe she is a really good friend and thats why she s just joking..and not actually "being rude or mean"...