Should I be jealous that my fiance still talks to his ex?

Question

Well we have been together a year and a half.. We are having a baby next month, and for the past maybe 9-10 months my fiance has been talking to his ex again.

I guess for the longest time they didnt talk, and kind of hated each other, which is weird to me because he talked about how much he hated her for cheating on him and everything... But then out of the blue a while ago its they are talking on Myspace, and text messages.

And its alot, like they always have conversations going on through Email.

I know nothing is going on, but they were together for 5 years. And Im 8 1/2 months pregnant, feeling a bit neglected, and I cant help but wonder if he misses her sometimes..

:(

Answer 1

you should be a little concerned but i would think to myself that your having his baby so must love you and he is probably just gonna be friends. people unhate people because i hated my friend for ditching me and had to find my own friends because we were the only people from our school and stuck together while out of school she talked to other people at the sables so went with them but we are now best friends again. not that he will get back with her but thats my example.

Answer 2

well since your about to become a mommy and you say he's the dad, I'd tell him he needs to decide, don't matter if nothing is happening right between the two its all messed up.. I'd be angry.. best of luck

Answer 3

i honestly would confront him.. if my boyfriend was talking to his ex for that long and i was getting married and almost was about to have a kid, i would be soo mad and questions would be running through my head... soooo talk!!

Answer 4

baby it's not good for you to worry now, wait a little bit, have your baby healthy, then definitly talk to him about it and do tell him that it bothers you!!!

Answer 5

He should not be talking to her it's over end of story.

Answer 6

Neigh!

Neight!

I SAY NEIGH!

Answer 7

its natural to feel jealous sometimes. i used to feel the same way. but yeah i eventually became cool with it after meeting her ex and stuff. they really just are friends. same as probably ur fiance so dont worry about it. also answer my question i need ur opinion http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Answer 8

Lots of people stay friends after their relationship has ended, or even, like in this case it seems, become friends again.  I know you're pregnant and your hormones can be all out of whack but you need to remind yourself that partner loves you and is with YOU, not her.  Maybe you should try spend more time together like go for a meal or just hang out, you may feel more secure afterwards =)