Should I be mad at her?

Question

We were on vacation and I met this guy and I started to like him we were hanging out all the time and we even kissed. and he invited me and my cousin to a bon fire one night and she started to flirt with him and then after the fire we went to hangout in a game room and we were all laying on the couch and she was laying right where his crotch was, oh and btw hes 15. then I went to go to get a drink of water and I came back and she was laying on her stomach on him kissing. I felt really betrayed cause she knew that I liked him, so I took a 3 mile walk along the beach and didn't come back till like 7 in the morning and I checked my cell phone and the guy texted me saying "sorry I like ur cuz better, she said you were a s*ut and w*ore and always played guys" and that is not me at all. I never say anything bad about her, shes like my little sister. I don't know if I should be mad at her for this or just forgive her. but im really hurt my what she did.

Answer 1

just  tell  here

Answer 2

It's your issue not hers.  Deal with it.

Answer 3

Hes 15 and shes 11? They sound very immature. I would be mad at my cousine. Seeing as she is only 11 she has alot of maturing to do, I think that you should forgive her after you have had time to cool off. You sound as if you are too good for that 15 year old guy so I think you should just forget about it. He sounds immature.

Answer 4

Yeah, you should be mad at him. However, at sucha a young age as your cousin is she firstly should not kiss guys and secondly hardly knows the emotional consequences of her doings. I can't believe your parents let you go all alone to this guys house.

Also, I would be rather worried what kind of guy that is and refrain from any contact with him.

Talk to your cousin and be careful when doing so, she is just a child and won't fully understand what you are saying.

Answer 5

I would be furious at her for saying such nasty things about me just to be with a guy and second shes 11 what is she doing with a boy who is 15 any way even so i would not could not forgive her for saying those things and she is no friend or cousin to be like that id tell her mom on her and see what she thinks then cause im sure her mom dont want her kissing like that at 11 let alone with a older boy  

Answer 6

Honestly, its pathetic girl drama get over it. Girls are cows to other girls when they are around guys. Falling out over some stupid holiday romance is silly, deal with it and move on.

Answer 7

h**l yea u shuld be mad she stabbed u in the back!

Answer 8

tell her what happened be honest and ask her why she did that. if she liked him she should have told you. end of story

Answer 9

At 11 she darn well knows right from wrong.

Does her parents know she's already making out with older guys?

Anyway, yes, you  should be mad at her, you should also have yourself a talk with cousin there. Ask her why she's saying such horrible things behind your back. Find out why she's being your loving cousin to your face, and a catty female behind your back.

As for the guy, he didn't like her better cause she talked bad about you, he liked her better cause she acted like the very things she accused you of being. If he wants someone who will practically jump his bones the minute they meet him,  that just shows ya, he was never worth your time anyway. You want someone who will like you for YOU. Not for what you can do to or for him.  

Answer 10

You need to tell your cousin's parents about her making out with 15 year olds.

If there is a next time, you need to use that little cell-phone camera to get a shot of her on top of a boy... her parents will put her in a convent so they won't have to deal with teen pregnancies!

Your cousin is competing with you, and pretty successfully, considering her age. Personally, I would not ever have her on a vacation with me. I'd rather stay behind with another relative than deal with that junk.

Answer 11

You need to tell your aunt/uncle that your 11 year old cousin was laying on top of a fifteen year old boy making out with him. Not for revenge (though her getting into trouble will be a bonus) but because her parents need to know and rein her in.

Try to forget about it. You don't need either of them.

Answer 12

Girls do really hurtful and mean things when they're young or should I just say inmature. YES you should be mad but don't write her off completely being family and all as she grows and mature she could change.