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Should I be mad at my friend for this?

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I've been friends with this girl for like 4 years.

Today was her birthday and we were talking about bdays and if anyone remembered their birthdays

I asked her 'i doubt you remember my birthday'

then she said, 'august 7th right?'

well...turns out MY BIRTHDAY IS AUGUST 4TH!

should i be mad at her for forgetting it? weve been friends for a long time and i feel like i should be mad.....should i?

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wow people argue over nothing these days.
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well i would be mad at my friend,i would forgive her
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I don't think you should, it's just a little thing, I mean its not like she said December 8th or something, she was close.

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My husband does the same to me!  Mine is FEB 7th...he always asks "Your birthday is FEB 4th, right.

Who cares...at least he knows I have a birthday coming!
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no just let it go, ya i knew my friend for about 8 years and i never knew her birthday (it was in june but i thought it was in October) just be happy it was really close (only 3 days)
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i wouldnt get too angry with her.

just let her know it hurts you by saying... oh.. well i would think you would remember my birthday.

but like i said, dont be too angry about it,

because she'll think you're being clingy or overreacting.

best of luck!
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no not really its not a hudge deal she had the mounth right thats good LOL.

Just tell her that you got your feelings hurt and she will understand then she knows and it is out in the open.
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no

chill out

she was close

you are either over reacting, pmsing

or dramatic

that is what she will be thinking when you go ballistic on her for not remebering your birthday
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Well I might be a little upset, but I'd get over it. For some people, it's just hard to remember stuff like that. She was only 3 days off. :-) Some of my bffs get my bday wrong by months! Haha.

Happy belated birthday. :-)
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no. that's a really, really, really, [emphasis on the really] stupid thing to be mad about. you should just say...hey-my birthday's august 7th!! why get mad? you should stay friends if you've been friends for so long.

besides, in a few days you'll probably be laughing about it.

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No, that's something stupid to be mad about.

I've been friends with people for like way over 4 years and I can't remember their birthdays haha
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if it was me i would prolly be upset at my friend. happy belated birthday =]
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