Should I be upset or move on?

Question

My boyfriend and i just broke up a few days ago. He says that he has become a christian and and wants to do right by me, marry me, and so on. He told me all of this on the phone to me four nites before he broke up the relationship. All of the sudden, he calls me and tell me that God dont want us to be together no more because there is more to the divorse, the wife dont wanna sign no papers, and and that its not right...but thats not what he told me a few days ago. he was still a christian when he told me about our future together and other great things, and then he misleads me into something else. I respect his descision, but was he still wrong for misleading me into thinking that he still wanted to be with me? Is this a game that he's playing?

Answer 1

game or not, i dont think u should b part of it.

when it gets this confusing, its time 2 move on. its a "whatever" situation.

i dont mean any offense, but when people start using their personal situations in the name of God, and why they should or shouldnt do something bcuz of God, i get the shivers and separate myself quickly. its 2 easy 4 them 2 say, and 2 hard 4 u 2 question.

so, my advice is 2 move on.

as i wrote b4, game or not, i dont think u should b part of it.

Answer 2

Duh it's a game. He sounds confused, or just had no other way to break up with you. Guys will say stupid s*** sometimes when they don't know how to break up with a girl. Move on.

THAT WAS A REALLY NICE CHRISTIAN MOVE HE DID.

Answer 3

Whatever it is, he is thinking more about himself than he is about you and your feelings in all of this. Sounds like Christian guilt about his divorce. Yeah he is wrong.  

Answer 4

Religion doesn't really have anything to do with love.

Answer 5

Shame on you for dating a married guy.  You should never have developed expectations.  They usually go back to the wife.

Answer 6

i would be upset but move on