Should I be worried about my boyfriend’s ex-fiance contacting him?

Question

Should I be worried about my boyfriend’s ex-fiance contacting him?

Answer 1

yes

Answer 2

You should only be worried if he responds to her contact in way that suggests he’s not done with her. Don’t over-react, but ask subtle questions in conversation or have a frank discussion with him about it. Either way, you need to get a feel for how he feels. If he has told you he’s absolutely done with her then you need to take him at his word until there’s reason not to.

Answer 3

yes .. but I dont think there is any thing you can do about it..

Answer 4

...I agree with one of the other guys in here. Trust IS an important issue in a relationship. However, lets remember this is not any ordinary ex-girlfriend. This was the ex-FIANCE. Must have been pretty special. I wouldn't go paranoia/suspicous/nuts about it, but PLEASE keep tabs on it. Talk to your boyfriend about it, ask how he feels about it, how you feel about it, meet half way and STILL always keep tabs. Just in case you need to jump in.

Your excuses for doing so:

1) You trust your boyfriend, but you don't trust her

2) An ex fiance's different from an ex girlfriend

3) Because you're a woman, and you have every right to feel this way. It's unexplainable nature.

If your boyfriend can't comply, then he might as well be saying he's cheating right in front of you.  

Answer 5

Honestly, nope! If you have to ask this question it feels you failed in the #1 rule of a relationship. If you cannot trust the other person in the relationship then it'll never work. If it actually does feel like it's working one or both of you will be completely miserable (unless that is what you want)?

Answer 6

yea u should maybe they r still seeing each other