Should I be worried about this with my boyfriend in the future?

Question

my boyfriend recently moved in with one of his friends who needed a roommate. his friend has a rescue dog that chews up everything in the apartment's living room. my boyfriend knows this, however he left his laptop and power cord out in the living room while we went to the grocery store. we came back a little later and the dog had chewed up his computer cord.

it is an expensive cord (about $60-$100) and i understand why he would be mad at the dog, however, he went completely ballistic and screamed at the top of his lungs at the dog, then chased it around the apartment and started hitting it. the dog wasn't hurt or anything, but he just kept screaming and saying all of these really horrible things and wouldn't stop for about 15-20 minutes.

normally he is a really nice guy, and i've never seen him get so angry before, but is this an indication of the kind of person he really is? he wasn't in a bad mood or anything before the dog chewed up the cable.. it just made me want to leave and now i just dont want to see him at all..

Answer 1

Hi

Good gut feeling going on there with you and wanting to leave. This tells you what kind of person he really is. My x was that way in the beginning and I ignored it. I had to live with it after, I was married ,way into the relationship....took so long for me to get out of. Run like the wind. and don't look back. He'll charm you to death...he will.  what ever you do, don't marry this guy.

Katie

Answer 2

Looks like the true him came through. Leave.

Answer 3

EVERYONE says or does things they regret or feel stupid about  when their mad