Should I be worry about my husband addiction to p**n and paying less attention to his newborn?

Question

We have been marry for 4 years and have 2 children, ages 4 yrs. and 4 months. During my pregnancy with my second child, my husband look at p**n and masturabate because I wasn't in the mood duriing my pregnancy, Now that our son is born he continues to look at it even though I compromise with him and told him only to look at it when the children are asleep. But that is not working out. He looks at the p**n anyway when i just walk out the room instead of playing with his son. I feel as though he puts that first. He need to put his priorities first. My daughter already seen the sites. Now when she sees him on the computer she is curious to look at the computer. And just seem to know he is looking at something nasty because he yells at her to stop trying to looking at the computer when he is on.

Answer 1

Yes you should be worried, it sound like he is out of control.  He may need counseling or something to stop.  It is definitely not healthy for your children to see that and, if he can't get it under control, I forsee some serious problems.

Answer 2

He is being extremely selfish!!!   I think you need to talk with him and if that doesn't work then he needs serious couselling.

Answer 3

this does not sound good AT ALL!!! he has an addiction, he needs help and the fact that he is lookin at it while his children are around and might see it is sick!!! if he wont get help or sort himself out you need to get your children out of that situation asap!! good luck x

Answer 4

Yes, I would be worried.  I would have put my foot down as soon as he started looking at it the first time.  There are people who say it is like a disease.  So it may be hard for him to stop.  He may need counseling, but I'm sure he won't like that idea, so just try to talk to him about.  I hope everything works out.