Should I believe my gut feeling or believe him?

Question

My boyfriend is 5 years old than me and lives about 70 miles away from me. I'm 17 and he's 22. We have been dating for a month now. What I'm asking this question about is that, a few days ago I was trying to get ahold of him and some girl answered his phone. I think he doesn't want to be with me. He just denied it all. What do I do?

Answer 1

In this situation and in life, trust your instinct!

Answer 2

if a girl answered his phone she had to feel comfortable enough with him to do so

wheather he left the room or was sitting next to her

girls dont just go answering anyones phone

tell him that you dont care if he is hanging out with other girls as friends in a group [or whatever you feel comfortable inserting there] but you dont apperciate being lied to. tell him you dont need to put up with cheating and your not going to be the only one committed to the relationship. you dont care how many miles away he is or how much older he is you dont apperciate the lying.

see how he reacts and what he has to say about and take it from there

Answer 3

get rid of him. at such a young age it isnt worth stressing over a long distance relationship

Answer 4

he was prob with some other girll... ur gut feeling is prob right sorry sweetie

Answer 5

trust your gut

Answer 6

Listen to your gut. If he's cheating on you then he doesn't deserve your time anyway.

Answer 7

Go with your gut..

it's telling you something for a reason.