Should I bother with this guy?

Question

On my dad's street there's a guy. Hes 14 and really really cute! I like him & he seems to like me too. One day my step-mum saw him 'checking me out' and swore at him.. Thinking this was really rash, I asked her why, and she said he had a kid! He does!

Is he worth chasing after now or should I leave it? I dont want a kid at 14 .

Answer 1

just talk to him.  

Answer 2

OMG no I would def not be messing with a guy with a kid.  You're to young to deal with that!

Answer 3

don't bother he only likes you for one thing...its so obvious

Answer 4

I would not want to be with anyone who already had a child at age 14.  Where is the baby's mama?  Is he supporting his child?  xox  

Answer 5

Leave him alone. It's deeper than just him having a kid. What does that say about his personality or lifestyle? "Whoops I had s*x at the age of 13, got a girl pregnant because the condom broke, now I'm screwed?"

Answer 6

First you should just talk to him to see if he really has a kid.  Sometimes parent say things to get you to think the worst about others because they do want you to make certain mistakes. But even still he's probably a nice guys regardless of his mistakes.

Answer 7

Anyone irresponsible enough to have a kid at that age shows exactly what they are nade of, immaturity!! leave well alone

Answer 8

First off do you know 100% that it was his kid and not like his little brother/sister or cousin or something but if he already has a kid himself don't bother it is not worth your time not even a fraction of it

Answer 9

i wwouldn't hes just guna be on a different wavelength to you now he has a kid and that really changes your life he has to put his child above every thing else including you a relationship with him would be too serious you r young you should be having funn, if you aren't attatched to him yet don't let yourself be it will be just too much drama for you  

Answer 10

I don't think you should...he could be a s*x offender. I wouldn't if I were you.  

Answer 11

seriouslyyy you want to be involved with a guy who hs a kid at age 14? that's sick

Answer 12

u dnt need to have a kid... O____________________________O

dont go for him tho, what a creep

Answer 13

He doesn't have the best track record for responsibility in the world does he? Trust your mum on this one.

Answer 14

Its up to you, don't do what anyone else tells you to, go with your instincs :)

Answer 15

Forget it.

Answer 16

No i don't think you should be getting involved. I'm 14 too and it would be horrible to have that responsibility - tbh he sounds like trouble - it's up to you though

x

Answer 17

Don't go with that 14-year-old kid...

Kindly add me - ralphg999

Answer 18

Wether you want a kid or not it's your choice. And you  can avoid the  chances of it,  but if this guy on ly wants you for s*x and you're o nly 14 i suggest you don't go for him. In my honest opinion  you're a little too young to be having s*x but nobody can stop you, they can just warn you about unprotected s*x and so on.

So, get to know him if you want to date him and don't just have s*x with him straight away wait a couple months or more atleast and this will put him to test. If he truely cares a bout you as a person thn s*x wont matter as much to him, if not then he only wants you for one reason.

And when you do make sure you never have unprotected s*x, not only could you get pregnant you could also catch a sexually transmitted disease (STD).

So be careful! x

Answer 19

hes 14 and has a kid?? Id agree with your step-mum on this one hun - thats a lot to take on at your age - he sounds way to advanced for 14, Id steer well clear

xx

Answer 20

Good idea to not talk to him... you are only 14?  you should not be dateing anyone that is old enough to have a kid..

Answer 21

Depends on you. But I'd just let it be.

Answer 22

That was pretty rash of your mom to swear at him...

But oh GOD, he has a KID? HE'S only a kid! That is seriously messed up. If I were you, I wouldn't go after him. Clearly he wants one thing only.