Should I break up with her?

Question

I love my girlfriend. We met while working together 3 years ago. And a year later we started dating. I’ve always questioned my feelings for her since we were such good friends before taking the step. We’ve always got along and everything seemed good. About 6 months ago our relationship started to get a little rocky and then we went on a trip together to a mutual friend of ours’ wedding. When we got back we almost broke up. When we started to talk about taking a break from our relationship i quickly made the decision to move in with her. I know its sounds really irrational but at the time i thought it was the best move. Take the relationship to the next step or get out, right.

So we moved in. I thought we might be able to fix some of our problems once we moved in and we did. I love her, but now that we have been together for 2 years i question whether or not its going anywhere. We’re both young. I want her to still be my friend, but this is one of those things where u break up she’s going to have to move out or vice versa. I know she loves me and again i do love her, but is it enough? I question if i’d be happier if i was with someone else. I feel like i could just end up hurting her by doing something stupid. Our relationship is very comfortable, but i don’t know if there is that “spark” that everyone talks of. I want to be fair to her but i also don’t want to do something that i know i won’t be able to take back. I love her, but i don’t know if i love her enough that there is a future. If there isn’t, then the longer i wait the harder it will be on both of us. I love her, i don’t want to hurt her and i don’t know who else to turn to for advice. Any help you could provide would be greatly appreciated.

Answer 1

i do not think u should break up if you both love eachother

you should maybe have s*x more often (it would maybe help)

   spend more time together maybe?

GOOD LUCK!!!!

Answer 2

This is one of those tricky questions only you know how to answer.I had a friend going through a similar problem. Unfortuantely, the friend let the relationship progress when they really weren`t into each other as they thought they were. After 4 years, a son, and a broken engagement, they hate each other.  If you are having doubt, maybe it is time for you to be by yourself for a bit to get to see if this relationship can work. I am pretty sure she can respect you more if you didn`t drag on a dead relationship (if it is in fact dead)

Answer 3

It sounds like you need to step back and think about what you really want. The longer you wait and are indecisive the harder it is going to be to eventually break it off. We noticed you keep saying how much you love her, it almost seems like you are being defensive about it. Do you really love her as a partner or as just as a friend? If you only love her as a friend then maybe you should think about moving on.

It seems like you are having thoughts that someone else might be better suited for you. This may be true, but don’t forget that no relationship is ever perfect. You are never going to love every little thing about someone. Their will always be certain things that you fight about. So make sure those feelings of doubt are real issues you have with her.

We realize that her moving out would be a hassle if you broke up, but this should be the least of your concerns when making this decision. If you don’t want to be in this relationship, then break it off and you both will be better for it in the long run. Don’t let moving issues effect your decision.

The worst thing you could do is cheat on her. Decide what you want, make a decision, and live with it. Don’t hurt her because you were too scared to break it off and ended up cheating on her.

Answer 4

idk but your avitar looks like a r****d