First off WE are not a traditional family by all means...we're of latino, modest background where formalities are non-existent, RSVPs, engagement parties, bridal showers, x-mas cards, birth announcements, etc. are not something we practice regularly...anyway...
I have an aunt whom I see maybe once every year and half (if that) The last time I saw her was for my wedding in California (she traveled 45 mins) I moved a week later to Texas and haven't spoken to her since. I received her wedding invitation in the mail yesterday (she only has my address because I mailed my cousin a picture of my daughter) The wedding is for Sept. 27 at her home in California. I'm not rich, I guess I could afford it if I tried hard, but does she really expect me to take a week off work and travel 1,500 miles with my newborn for her wedding? Or was that one of those "mail me a present" invitations? In either case, am I supposed to send her a wedding gift? If so, what do I spend? and does it matter that she's in her 50's and it's like her 3rd marriage?
Answers to each of my questions is appreciated. I already know people usually send wedding gifts if they cannot attend, but please take my specific situation into consideration.
Thank you!
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