Should I call her again?

Question

So I started talking to this girl in one of my classes at college last friday. We walked and talked for about 5-10 min and then we had to part ways, saying maybe we'll run into each other over the weekend (which unfortunately didn't happen).

I saw her in class today, and afterwards we started walking and talking. My next class wasn't for an hour, so I offered to keep her company till she got back to her dorm (she wanted to get some more sleep). At the dorm door, again she said maybe we'll run into each other tonight at a campus event. So then I said "take my number if you want to meet up," but she didn't have her phone (she wasn't sure if she lost it mind you) so she gave me her number.

I sent a text a couple hours later to let her know when the event started, and then later I tried getting ahold of her to see if she went, but no answer.

The possiblity is there that she did lose her phone. The question is, should I try giving her a call tomorrow night, or just wait till Friday and talk to her after class?

Answer 1

I say you wait to until you see her face to face. If she is trying to avoid you about it stop bothering her. If she is really insisting like she is on your side, I say at least keep trying. Good luck.

Answer 2

Slow your roll, bro. You could scare her away. Women don't always communicate the same way that men do, and what motivates women doesn't always motivate men. You've already tried jumping into the fray and texting her right away and it didn't work. So I'd adivse you to wait until Friday for sure. Nobody likes someone who's desperate, or appears to be. Slow down and play it relaxed. Next time you walk and talk, ask her if she'd like to get something to drink or eat..and make sure you get something very small and safe to order - never slobber on yourself in front of a woman you like. It's a total turn-off.

Answer 3

Wait until after class and ask her why she didnt respond to see if it was because she still was missing her phone. Otherwise it might be creepy if she does find her phone like a day later and she sees that u texted and called her a ton.

Answer 4

talk to her after classes or soemthing....dont bug her with texting becuase thats just being a bit annoying her inbox will look like this:

From: bob saggot

"hey"

From: bob saggot

"hey"

From: bob saggot

"hey"

From: bob saggot

"you there?"

From: bob saggot

"hello?"

it would be a bit overwhelming

Answer 5

i would wait and talk to her friday after class

Answer 6

try calling one time and if no answer then wait til class and see what was up and let her know that you called her

Answer 7

call her,she wouldn't have given you her number if she didn't want you to call.

Answer 8

Well if you dont call, shes gonna be like "why didnt you call" and your gonna be like... Man.. I wish i would have called...

Answer 9

wait till friday bro if she really likes you she will call you if she has her phone and dont make yourself seem so desperate. Also if she did lose her phone dont worry about the texts or calls just start a conversation friday.  

Answer 10

you should call again, and then if she dosnt anser,

just see her in class and tel her u tried to reach her. :)

Answer 11

I think if you call her and just say you were wondering if she found her phone. Play it cool and keep it brief and ask her to call you back, leave your number and have some patience. Definitely don't blow up her phone. She might get annoyed.

Answer 12

Don't seem eager (that's a turn off).

Take your time, get to know one another.

Play a little "hard to get"

Answer 13

I would try calling once each day and if no reply, talk to her after class on Friday.

Answer 14

well if you like and want to hang out.. call her...guys are usually the ones that dont call back or whatever..girls are usually the ones that usually call and what not...so im not really sure.but just give her a call and see what happens and if nothing happens then wait till class

Answer 15

ohh good 1 like best question all day long

first of all, u shoulda waited at least a day or 2 before texting her

but now that u did..

try calling her at like 10 o clock ish

tomorrow night

then if she doesnt pick up or call back

a. she lost her phone

b. she doesnt like you (which i doubt since she gave u her phone number)

anyways, gl and if u like my answer, put me up for the 10 pts

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Answer 16

dude, chill out for a second...let her breathe for a couple of days.  find an event, party, etc this weekend and let her know that you would like for her and her friends to go.  give her your number and see what happens.  This way she has to:

1. talk to her friends about you and see if they want to go and in turn the girls will start grilling her about you

2. you don't seem like the stalker type

3. she knows that your not a loser

4. and you'll get to see her guaranteed on the weekend

Answer 17

maybe it is a phone that does not allow text messages? Like a lan line / house phone!

Answer 18

lay off dude, sounds like she doesn't want any part of you. don't be a stalker.

Answer 19

You should wait untill friday cuz u dont know that she wanna talk to u or not!!!

Answer 20

yea he should

Answer 21

i think you should

Answer 22

wait till friday

Answer 23

Don't sound clingy, just wait.

Answer 24

i think you should give her a call

i mean you have the right to, and maybe you guys can make plans to chill instead of the few minutes after class