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Should I call him? or just let it go?

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Ok here is the story. I met this man on a plane in november last year, we talked, he gave me his number asked that I call him.(he doesn't live in my hometown) So I called, we arranged a meeting, we went out , had a drink! and talked for about 2 hours. we had amazing conversation. when I went to drop him off at his hotel room he asked if I wanted to come up and I said no, he persisted and I said ok! lol So we talked some more and we kissed (the most amazing kiss of my life, it took my breath away) and then I went home. he said he would call me and he did, we talked on the phone a couple of times during the next two weeks and his job brought him to my hometown again and we met up. we talked, we kissed some more and then things got heated (u know) we were about to have s*x and he didn't have a condom ( I was like umm , its not going to happen without it) and he was just ready to go for it (the whole time I am thinking , who? in this day and age would have s*x with someone they met a month ago on a plane with out a condom) so we didn't have s*x , if we would have driven to a walgreens at that point it would have ruin the mood. so instead we just talked and talked and even danced and I felt we just clicked. I was way smitten, like never in my life. So after that night he called maybe once we talked or a couple of minutes and thats it. he never called me back. One druken night out I decided to text him and asked him when he was going to come down to see me? he replied the next morning and asked if I would be in town next tuesday. I replied and told him I would let him know in like 3 days. so within 2 days I replied and confirmed that I would be home on that they that he had asked and he never replied and I never heard from him again. The thing is for some weird reason, I still think about this man all the time. I always wonder of what could have happened, I have been on dates and none of them compare to the click I felt with him and I have defenetly have not been kissed that way or felt that way at all. so I deleted his number from my phone (I really didn't want to drunk text again) but I can go back to my phone records and get his number. should I call and try once more or should I just let it go and let it be? please help me make a decision!

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  1. let it go Hun.

    no guy is worth it. he sounds very rude // I'm 16 and that just happened to me.. i wouldn't have s*x without a condom so he stopped calling. guys are jerks.


  2. You sound like a really sweet girl looking for a good guy!  This guy doesn't deserve your time or anything else.  It sounds to me like since y'all didn't do the deed, he's moved on and so should you.  You will find someone who is even better and when you do, he will treat you like you deserve and not leave you wondering.  Hope everything works out for you girl!!! Good Luck :)  

  3. I would call him. But it is really your choice. Whatever you are construable with.

  4. Yuck.  I hate dating.  I have had that happen before where I couldn't stop thinking about someone and they wouldn't call me back so I called them and looked desperate.  Don't look his number up.  He has yours.  If he wants to call you he will.  Let it go.  Go out with some friends, try internet dating, or just stay in and watch some movies.  

  5. let it go for all you know he can have a wife and kids and is using you as his side dish when he is away on business trips.  

  6. What do you have to lose? Call him. If he responds you might get to see him again, if he doesn't respond or doesn't want to see you then you will know.

  7. call him! then ask to go to a club! have a condom with you and get busy! i think you really like him!

  8. You've had too much time to think / fantasize / romanticize this guy, so you've become smitten with what he COULD be rather than what he IS, which is someone who simply gave up on you after you didn't have s*x with him. And GOOD FOR YOU, no glove no love, I'm proud of you. :)

    But anyway, yeah, you need to find someone who treats you better, and wants to hang out for other reasons than s*x. You deserve better. :)

  9. do it. why not?

  10. yes i think you should  call him back  give it a secound chance

  11. Let it go.  If it is meant to be, he will come back into your life.  At least you had this one amazing experience, and good for you for not sleeping with him when he did not have a condom!  You go, girl!

  12. Let him go, I mean there are other fishes in the sea, if you know what I'm saying, find other guy who will care for you and will always be there for you.

  13. i would totally call him!! come onn... i mean u can win a lot or u can loose what u wanna loose now.. i mean at least try.. if u know that hes sum1 special and he makes u feel special then dont let him gooo!!!! call him.. i mean dont be annoying.. but aww come on! im pretty sure that if hes really that good, he wont be upset or even thinking a lot about this pretty stupid situation.. i mean u did a right thing... :D go ahead!! and good luck! :):)

                                                Good luck!!! :):) ~Nina

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