Should I call it quits on my friendship????

Question

I got this friend who's one of my closest friends since like the 5th grade. We've had our ups and downs over the past few years and they've all revolved around dudes. The 1st fall was when i was dating a mutual friend and she and another friend of her's tried and succeeded in destroying my relationship. I have to give them ups though they did me a huge favor, but that's completely beside the point. Anyways that was almost 3 years ago and I thought we had passed that speed bump and mended the bridge. I heard from another close friend of mine that she's once again tryin to s***w me over by trying to destroy yet another relationship that I'm in. I mean Im the one who's there for her when she's goin through **** with her boyfriend and this is how she repays me..........

Answer 1

What friend?  This is not a friend. This is an adversary. Dump the adversary. Stick with real friends.

Answer 2

talk to her before you let her go. tell her how you feel, and ask her what she was thinking when she did it. maybe she was afraid you were going to give all of your attention to your bf, and she didnt want to lose you? if what she has to say is childish and immature, tell her that you think its time to make some new friends. maybe let her know that if she needs you, you will be there, but your tired of playing games, and want to move on.

Answer 3

Talk to her about it first, before you do anything.

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Answer 4

first things first don't believe everything you hear. What if you friend lying. Lets say she's not and your other best friend is actually trying to destroy your relationship. You should confront with her first and ask why she's being so rude to you when you have a relationship. Maybe you should rethink of her as a friend. Maybe she isn't you true friend. But the important thing is you should confront with her before you assume.