Should I call it quits?

Question

4-years seeing him

Been on 2 official dates

see him once a month and one phonecall a week

He says he doest trust me with his feelings and I dont either

He says he likes me alot and I feel it when I do see him

I recently got a DUI and he found out about, has not bothered to call me to see if im okay, I have texted him twice and called him once. Should I be persistant or call it quits. I have it real bad for this guy. He gets nothing from me, so why does he string me along??

Answer 1

Maybe he's just not that into you.  Perhaps after going out there were things that he saw as red flags and decided that it wouldn't make a good match.  Either way both of you are not ready for a relationship till you fix the issues that both of you have.  Work on yourself and find a person ready and willing to give you what you desire.

Answer 2

he strings u along becasue u let him and because he wants nothin more from u than what he is already getting. dont give him the satisfaction of having this much control over u. move on honey and let this be a lesson to you....men are buttholes...and to be honest...HES JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!!! let it go

Answer 3

i think you should give me some sucky sucky and forget about him...lol,,,,,you know guys will be guys love and i wish you didnt have to go thru this but whatever you decide to do i will sitck to yo booty like glue.....

Answer 4

He strings you along because YOU ALLOW it.  End this mess and keep it moving.

Answer 5

Are you serious~4 years? Eiyeeee yiii iii I have done lost my mind up in here

2 simple words MOVE FOREWARD

Answer 6

Who cares. Leave him. If he won`t respond, we can`t either. Just leave. Look for your happiness.

Answer 7

Why are you with this person this is the worst arrangement I ever heard you sure hes not married cause he don't spend no time with you how did you even find time to fall for him. You must fall easy.

Answer 8

he is married  

Answer 9

because he is married

Answer 10

2 dates in 4 years. Thats not a relationship! There is nothing to "quit"

Answer 11

OMG! Are you Serious???? Four years and two dates is ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS!! That's not a relationship at all!   A real relationship is where you see each other on a much more regular basis TRY a daily basis! From the time I met my fiance till now, about 3 yrs later... we've seen eachother  EVERY SINGLE DAY and have a serious committment to eachother.  In the 4 yrs you've supposedly been with him, you should at least have seen him on a daily basis okay I can understand a couple of days apart but c'mon! only 2 dates! that's just MAD!!! how you even stuck around all this time I just don't understand????  Move on sister, stop wasting your prescious time and find yourself a man who's so into you, he can't go a day without seeing you and calling you. And believe me they're out there!

Answer 12

This is not a relationship whatsoever...How can you believe that it is?

Four years and two dates is RIDICULOUS.  A real relationship is where you see each other on a much more regular basis and have a committment to one another.

You need to move on with your life with another...this is going nowhere, and I can't be the first to say this to you!

Sincerely,

Grace

Answer 13

Call what quits?  I don't know how old you are but this isn't a  relationship.

I agree, I think he is married and he squeezes you in when time permits.

Go find someone who actually WANTS a relationship with you.

Answer 14

i would def call it quits and cut your losses now

Answer 15

if he's annoying and u have not feeling then i think you should end the relationship there is no reason have this feeling dragging for a long time it will have a weird atmosphere... if you don't trust each other then just say the relationship is over and can't handle it if this continues,,,

Answer 16

sounds like this person isn't interested in you and i would personally not communicate with him and have him chasing you  

Answer 17

You are allowing him to treat you this way.  Cut off ALL communication with him.

He is moslt likely involved with another.  Treat yourself better than this.  Good Luck.

Answer 18

Very obviously just not that into you...  

Answer 19

yup he sounds married.  dont waste your time.