my mother in law is a jehova witness, my husband is a excommunicated jehova witness. So in their belief the members of the church are not allowed to speak to those that are excommunicated, meaning my mother in law will not speak to my husband.
The problem is, is that we have a 15 month old son. She has always told me that she doesnt have a problem with me, and that she would love to see me. Well, last may I called her up b/c my parents were in town visitng and I thought she would love to meet my parents. Well the only reason why she wouldnt come visit was because my husband was home and she wasnt going to see him, and I told her that it sucks that she is using that as a bind in our relationship because my husband had his own beliefs and wasnt going to join the church again and that I couldnt believe that she would just drop him as a son, a person she gave life too and raised till he was an adult, just because of his beliefs and values. Well, I have yet heard from her, and I know I'm welcome to call her at any time, and I do want her as a grandmother for my son, but in the back of my mind Im mad at her for the way she is treating the man I love. What should I do? should I call her and just make amends or should I let her take the next step and get her to call me?
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