I am a mother of two girls, 15 and 12. I was married to their biological father who has just recently became apart of their lives after many moons of begging him too...however, I remarried to my high school sweet-heart and he helped me raise my girls and up until December of 2007 I thought we had a great marriage with problems that we had once worked through..but that soon crumbled...I had found out he had been having an affair for the 2nd time during the marriage...we have now been divorced since Feb.. I began dating a man who is 9 years older than me and is a great man; however, my children who at first convinced me to date him now does not want anything to do with him or me especially now that he has proposed to me..in fact my girls now want to go live with their daddy (hs sweetheart) and I said no that wasn't going to happen... now of course I am catching c**p with both my girls and my ex because he wants them to come live with him although they are not biologically his their real father would have my head on a platter... I am so torn... and I can't handle all the drama... I keep telling myself that I am doing the right thing... yet my heart is breaking into a million pieces... I am torn with this engagement because my girls tell me everyday that will only be civil to my fiance yet if we get married they want to live any where but with us.
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