Should I care about it???

Question

me and my girlfriend are head over heels for each other but cant show it at skl because there are so many homophobes who will make our lives h**l. they have already made mine like h**l because i am very masculine but i don't want that to happen to my girlfriend. only my closest friends know about our relationship but other people are talking. I don't know what to do about it can anyone help me please????

Answer 1

unfortunately you may have to keep it under raps depending on where you are.  If you are in an area that is a little more open minded, then be free...and tasteful like any other couple.  Extrem public affection can get ridiculous whether you are a striaght or g*y couple.  Your gonna have to pick and choose your battles and locations.

I am a black woman who once dated a white man and it was the same mess.  I just dont care and if people got mad because we held hands in public, they were better off keeping their eyes and thoughts in your head because me nor my ex were ones to cower from anyone.  It seems like we were always fighting with society, even other interracial couples (white women and black men couples cant stand to see things the other way around, I didnt understand it).

All that being said, discuss it with your girlfriend first.  If she can handle the pressure, be happy and walk around with your dukes up :)

Answer 2

i wouldnt care about what other people thought.

it really shouldnt matter to you what they think or have to say.

especially if there not your friends.

&& why would you want to be friends with people you know are against it.

Answer 3

When your in any relationship someone will object and be rude about it.  To answer your question its none of there business and if its going to make your life worse why give them an excuse to do so?  Your only going to see these idiots at most another three years and they'll be gone from your life.  The world will always have bigots and as long as you do what's in your heart you'll live a happy life.

Answer 4

no

Answer 5

I say if your life is fine as it is then leave it but on the other hand if you you look masculine most ofthe them already know but it sounds like your girlfriend is in the closet.....who cares what they think if you guys have each other then thats all you need and at the end of the day they dont go home with you .. you need to make you happy not everybody else

Answer 6

I don't think anything should get in the way of love.  Just ignore what the other people think.  They just don't understand what a special relationship you have.

Answer 7

if i want to be heartless i can tell you not to care about the whole thing.. to forget whatever people will say and the looks they're going to give you if you become open about your relationship with your gf..

but i can't do that.. because you may get used to what they say and how they look at you but you will never accept someone doing anything like that to your gf.. so i have to say that you should keep it low, try your best to keep that feeling you have for her locked when you're in school .. people can be stupid... and homophobes can be real violent and maybe you can handle that but you wouldn't let something happen to your gf..

you don't need to scream your love for each other to really feel it.. do whatever's best for the situation.. so none of you get hurt and hurt others too ..