Should I cheat, or not?

Question

I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we have two kids together. Right now I am getting an urge to cheat on him. He has cheated on me in the past, even when I was pregnant with my first child. He still denies the cheating, but I have too much evidence that he did. Should I cheat around to make myself feel better or not?

Answer 1

Two words: Forgive and Forget.

Answer 2

I doubt that it will make you feel better. Why are you with someone that cheats on you? You deserve better. Usually if they do it once they continue.

Answer 3

that will make you feel guilty as you struggle with now. that will create more problems. if you both have these problems and trust issues and are fine thinking of cheating on each other... your time has passed and you really shouldnt be together anymore!

Answer 4

If he cheated on you on many occassions with evidence of the events then why are you still with him after 7 years?  After the first time fine if he really regret doing it but a second time and a third time and so on?  It's time to kick him to the curb and find another guy that deserves you rather than trying to get revenge by cheating because it's not going to do anyone good but ruin whatever relationship you guys have left.  You both just need to let go and go seperate ways because it's not love.

Answer 5

Why cheat and live a stressful life of sneaking and lying when you can just be honest and communicate with your mate?  A lot of people get the urge to cheat but many don't have the balls to actually talk to their mates before diving into the arms of another.  It sounds like your issue is not the urge to cheat, but rather the need to feel respected, loved, and appreciated.  These are things that you deserve.  Don't sell yourself short by cheating--if your man isn't the one, or if you want him to do somethings differently, talk but don't cheat.  If he can't give you what you need, then walk.  I wish you all the luck in the world.

Answer 6

no it just would make it worse.  then he might use that agaisnt u and you guys will fight more.  if u do that u will cause so many probz in ur marriage im telling u.  if u want to cheat on him atleast leave him.  so he doesnt have to suffer with a lie.  just think would u want him to do that to you again.  im sure it was hard for you.  so why would u do that to him.  be real and a true friend.  good luck.