Should I commit suicide ???, I am a g*y & I may never turn straight ?

Question

I am a 18 year old g*y ; Why nature played this foul trick with me , I know not ; People will never accept me for this , no matter what ; Forget the people , I myself feel guilty for this ; I have begun to look at myself as a shameless object

Answer 1

  So....which are you the ......college professor ` a guy.....which you claim to be.... in another question you ask....with a boy who came up to you and ask if he could help with the forms..acting shy and smiling ....wanting to know if the boy is attracted to you........OR ..........Are you the 18 yr. old guy who you say nature played a trick on...never being accepted......Which are you??...So I can answer your question

Answer 2

LISTEN MATE, IF YOU WANT TO GO AND KILL YOURSELF, DO IT STOP WINING ABOUT IT AND TRYING TO GET A REACTION  OUT OF IT.

Answer 3

Poppet, suicide is not the best of ideas.

So what, your g*y!

So are thousands of others.

Accept you for you,

As you will be accepted by others.

I am straight,but have a few g*y/L*****n friends,

and they are the Nicest people any one could ever wish to meet.  Life is short enough,without helping to end it on your own,besides Suicide is an easy way out

for you maybe! But think of All those left to Live with it that Love you!

Answer 4

come on your heavenly father loves you and you must not think like this, we all have problems of one sort or another join the human race.  alot of g*y people are nice and accepted real friends wont judge you, but it would be good idea to straighten yourself out cos you can kids and a woman, alot of g*y men have had a bad relationship with their father and a good male counsellor will help expassilly restore that balance

Answer 5

no dude. soon as u get older you'll realize that  sexuality is not all there is in life and that your have a much bigger purpose.. and duty..

and journey.. and that it is all for YOU and no one else

Answer 6

accept who you are and dont fear,

Answer 7

Don't commit suicide!That's the first thing that you should never do at all!

Just don't mind what people say about you.

Answer 8

yeah you need to just grow up...You are too hard on yourself about stuff you can't control and that's just a sign on immaturity. Give yourself time to grow and learn bout it more. And learn to accept yourself and others. Talk to a therapist.

Answer 9

It is not uncommon for a young g*y person to have self defeating thoughts.  Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

I suggest that you find a good therapist who can assist you through this time in your life.

Some people will not accept anyone regardless of their orientation.  We are all labeled in one way or another.  

You can get through this and find happiness and acceptance, but you are going to have to consider getting help doing it.  You are not a shameless object nor are you a bad person.  You have a future ahead of you, you just have to find it, but it will happen.

I cannot counsel you online but there are counselors who can assist in getting you through this.

Nothing is worth taking your life over.  NOTHING!

There is help available.

Answer 10

Watch Ellen on TV everyday. She is g*y and they let her have her own show. Many straight people are depressed and kill themselves so happiness does not come from sexual orientation. See site below and learn how to be happy.

See page about difference between men and women to see that the U.S. has thousands of intersexuals. They are not male or female.

Answer 11

no because it's your decission and you have to respect your own decission......

Answer 12

There's nothing wrong with being g*y. People just don't understand diversity.

Also, being g*y isn't a choice. And any of you who say they could choose to be g*y, but choose to like girls, congrats, you're bisexual.

Oh and scales if I could thumb down your post any more times I would. That statement is so unbelievably ignorant.

Answer 13

...You seem to be looking at your sexuality as a curse. When in fact, it may be a gift... You don't have to deal with nearly as much b*tchiness as a heterosexual male. :)

I accept you , and there's an entire community out there who will accept you as well. You shouldn't feel guilty about it. EVER.

You're only 18, don't be so quick to assume that people will shun you.

myspace.com/freehugsriverside

Answer 14

NEVER COMMIT SUICIDE THAT IS NOT THE ANSWER

Answer 15

Never commit suicide.  I believe God has a spacial place in his heart for victoms.  But why become the devils victom? We should All feel guilty due to something in our lives we must overcome.  The thing to do is read and try to learn about God.  We are All deformed in someway due from sin in our world.  If you keep looking at Jesus and not yourself these things will fade eventually over time.   Let me tell you the real definition of God's Grace.  It is the DIVINE INFLUENCE UPON THE HEART, AND IT'S REFLECTION IN THE LIFE.   Not just unmerited favor as the false Church's would tell you.  It changes the life.  So, prey for God's great Grace in your life.  The real definition for the GOSPEL is, it is the  POWER OF GOD unto Salvation.  So, we all need God's Grace and POWER in our lives as we all have problems to face and overcome.  Your problem is small in comparison to some.  Keep your eyes on Jesus.  When you eventually see him...you wont even think about your own wants anymore.  So until you see him...don't give up! Only by beholding will we become changed:) if you don't get this result...you haven't really seen him yet. All Church's cant show you as they don't know him themselves. read your own Bible and fall in love with God's son! He's coming back again soon!  

Answer 16

suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

Really, there is nothing at all wrong with being that way. Don't punish yourself for that. Embrace it.

Answer 17

Why nature played this foul trick with me...

You are exactly as you should be, being g*y or homosexual is shown throughout the natural world, and is normal.

People will never accept me for this....

I do, im not g*y but I accept you for who you are, I dont even know you but I wouldnt want any one to feel bad about who they are. Accept that not everyone will like you for some reason or another, you cant change the world just change ur attitude towards that and the people that accept you  are the ones that care for you.

I myself feel guilty for this.....

Guilt is a natural feeling, and ur guilt is misguide you want to be something your not because you feel others want you to be a ceratin way, accept who are, but also accept that your guilt is because you are a person which wants to be accepted which is perfectly normal, and be happy about wanting to be accepted its a very desirable quaity in a person.

I have begun to look at myself as a shameless object...

When bad things happen to me I laugh and curse, and then accept that this is the hand iv been dealt and the strongest thing I can do is pick my self up and keep going. Forgive yourself and move on. Your judging yourself from a the perfect world and the real world is not like that.

Never give up on life For me in life iv learned you can never tell what happens tomorrow good or bad. Someone dies someone wins the lottery but if u kill yourself you will never have that chance and think of all the people wanting to live. If you want to throw away your life, give your life to them and spend the rest of your days caring for people that need your help. Instead of throwing it away.....good luck life is though.

Pm me if you want to chat.....

Paul

Answer 18

Are ye serious? There's more acceptance between the g*y community than ever before in the UK, so if anything embrace it! And you only feel guilty because you're making yourself feel guilty, so start enjoying it. Don't kill yourself over it! Even the worst case scenario will be better than that.

Answer 19

Why would you suicide! Think the others around you! If you will commit suicide then it is a sin for killing yourself and it is a sin to God. And your family will miss you...think the effects that will happen sooner or later. You are not a shameless object nor even a stupid person! Every person has a business to take care of and to accomplish of! You will just waste your life and time. How about the dreams you want to fulfill! How about your future(child?).Think about yourself and your family.You'll just waste God's precious gift to you. Do not commit suicide> remember there are other g**s like you and they enjoy very much. learn how to accept yourself as a g*y.