Should I concern if a friend drink & finish a typical meal off from my boyfriend?

Question

I saw with my own eye and gross out about our special friend when she wanted only to share drink out of the same cup with my boyfriend in many occasion.

In addition, she also eat whatever he didn't feel like eating anymore. I hate the fact that she did all this bc she like him so much. I was really furious when she wore his jacket that I gave him for his birthday. What up with that? My boyfriend was considering her well being and thoughtless of my status. I am his girlfriend why would he let her do such thing that would inconsiderate for me. He has her cootie and give it to me. I do not appreciate. Please help me understand.

Answer 1

Hi!

as i said u earlier, u must've to a final talk with ur bf, and clear ur doubts,if he think abt her girl only as a friend or something else. you also have to say to ur bf that u deserve his love bcoz u both are in realtionship and u r not be like this .He must've to understand it that if u'll give the same attention to ither guy rather than ur bf he'll also feel the same thing as au feel now.everything can be solve with talk. so go ahead nd talk frankly wid him.all the best nd tell me what happened then.

Answer 2

It looks like she's after him... nobody would do what you describe otherwise. I think you should talk to her about it. Don't go freak out or anything, just ask her calmly...

Answer 3

Cooties?  I am going to say that based on that remark your probably not that old.  In which case, I wouldn't stress about it because this is probably not going to be your boyfriend for life.  I have a feeling this one will pass and you will move on.  And if this person is supposedly your friend, I would take a better look at your friendship and reevaluate what you consider a friend.  Friends know boundaries.  And boyfriends know boundaries too.  So I would take a good look at both relationships.  You shouldn't have to explain to your boyfriend that letting another girl drink out of his cup all the time, eat off his plate and wear is jacket, is not a good idea.  

Answer 4

thats not too hygienic, sit him down and tell him that this bothers you. you need to set the rules and boundaries sooner rather than later.

Answer 5

He has her cooties and gave them to you? Heaven forbid!