Should I continue to pursue?

Question

She is my best friend but I'm very much in love with her. She is going through a marital transition right now. She will be moving into a new house soon.

I was wondering should I be her roommate?

Answer 1

You should only move in with her if you can control her and your own emotions. I think its a bad idea tho. There will be emotional sparks all around the house. Your in love with her, shes going through changes and probably stressed out. Seeing each other in the same house everyday may lead to an unwanted relationship between the two of you. A relationship with her may sound good to you now but it may happen for all the wrong reasons.

Everytime someone asks me if they should date their best friend I always say no because once you cross the line of dating your best friend theres no going back to being only best friends. And if the relationship don't work out you havent only lost a boyfriend/girl friend you also lost a best friends which is hard to find and sometimes more important to have.

I think you should not move in with her, give her some space and let her get use to the new changes in her life.

Answer 2

h**l no dont do it!

Answer 3

No dear,

That would be the worst thing you can do.Don't take advantage of her vunerable state.Don't persue at this time.Don't do the roomate thing.

Answer 4

hi

does she love you ?  if so you can but if not

don't do . it's not good for your feelings

good luck  good friend