Should I date someone that is wrong for me? He's interesting and hot, but he's a bad boy?

Question

I think the real problem is I not motivated to see anyone else. Most men or women friends don't often motivate me to leave the house, lol. Although he is frustrating at times, I feel more real and alive. What to do?

Answer 1

Go ahead and date him, don't expect too much. He's more likely too cheat on you and lie to you. And most importantly, don't fool yourself. You can't change him. If he's bad now, he'll always be bad. Your love and understanding will not be enough to change him for the better. Rather, they'll just be there for him to take advantage of.

Answer 2

You're already attractted to him.

Oh well, i think its okay.

Answer 3

Then go for out, but don't let him break your heart.

The bad boy can turn out to be the sweet guy : ]

Answer 4

I'm doing that at the moment. My boyfriend is a real 'bad boy' but when he's just with me, he's the sweetest guy ever. He IS frustrating at times, but I really do feel more alive with him. I guess if it doesn't work out, I haven't really lost anything, more like gained knowledge. So I say go for it!  

Answer 5

You got good mind but bad outlook the life. It common in my land to take up serious hobby like painting or clay art or muzakal instrement. Then you look see someone, the man who is good.  

Answer 6

IIf you are looking for a serious relationship then no, but if you just want some fun, I guess enjoy it while it lasts, but don't get too attached cause the heat may wear down.  Or you never know...

Answer 7

date him.. a hottie thats interesting can be hard to find.

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