my husband and I have not been married for a super long time, but we just discovered that we are expecting a baby. To celebrate, our friends took him out to drink, which he rarely does. From what I know, he got really p**s drunk and wandered away from our friends. They figured he had found a ride home, so they left. My husband called his ex-wife from an arranged marriage, who was currently in town. He ended the relationship because he never had feelings for her, but she and I flatout hate each other. She picked him up and they went to her hotel. My husband claimed that nothing happened, but she called our apartment when he was in the shower tonight. I answered, not knowing who it was, and she said somethingabout bedding my husband. When he got out of the shower, I confronted him, and he admitted that they had hooked up. He didn't tell me because he said he didn't want to hurt me. We got in a fight, and I left for the night to sleep on my friends couch, where I am right now.
When I think back to the past 12 years, I remember that we have been there for each other through everything. He shattered my heart, but I am still so in love with him.
Should I forgive him and stay, since he was incredibly pissass drunk? I saw him when he got home, and I know it's a fact. Or should I leave him, getting a divorce and ending our marriage? He's so excited to be a father.
Thank you.
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