Should I dump him, I find him kind of boring?

Question

Should I dump him, I find him kind of boring?

Alright i just met this guy the other day. We went on a couple of dates and well I think he's kind of BORING. All he wants to do is work work work and the conversation is good sometimes but I feel like I do most of the talking. He is very serious and he is no fun to talk to. This definitely sucks for someone like me who loves having good conversation.

It seems as though I am more interested in knowing about him than he wants to know about me. When I bring it up to his attention he says that he has a different way of going about it then me.

Don't get me wrong he is a gentleman which is on the qualities that I admire about him and he is somewhat more attentive than most guys I have ever dated before. However, he is very reserved and is not very demonstrative about his feelings. He does however respond to me when I hold his hand or something. Also, i think he is a little bit full of himself but i guess there is a fine between being confident and cocky.

I don't know. i don't see this going anywhere. I am still young (20) and I don't really feel like committing to anyone. He is 23 btw

I forgot to add, When I kissed him I did not feel any chemistry. So I guess this is a dead end right?

Answer 1

I agree with Anna B. It's always good to give people a chance.

Answer 2

GIVE HIM A CHANCE. why are you letting what's in your pants override what's in your head?  He's a gentleman.  He has a good job.  A lot of guys aren't initially too great with conversation.  Just give him a couple more dates and see where it goes.  If there's still nothing, then reconsider.  Alot of the "interesting" guys are ***holes.

There's nothing to lose by waiting.  If you dump him, you could end up with a jerk and lose a real gem.  If you wait, all you lose is a little bit of time and maybe gain a friend, or more.

Answer 3

Dump him.......Its better to be single yet hapy rather than committed yet not hapi....its like being in a trap......anyways its his big big loss girl.

Answer 4

dumpp himm.

youur wastingg yourr time.

Answer 5

Your wasting both of yours time.  Its not a big deal if there is no chemistry..it happens.  Dont accept anymore dates and now you know a ittle more about yourself and what you DONT want in a date or boyfriend.