Should I dump him or not?

Question

My boyfriend Justin got raped by this fat chick on a bus named Bonequisha idk if thats her nickname or real name well anyways ever since the incident he won't sleep with me I even went down to her house and gave her an old fashion beat down and he still seems scarred from the fact what should i do?

Answer 1

i think you should just let him chill out for a while.

Answer 2

what?

Answer 3

talk to him maybe he scared he got aids or something

and dosent want yu to get it just talk to him  

Answer 4

hmmm

Answer 5

Yep

Answer 6

You should talk to him and tell him to talk to someone.You dont have the knowledge to help someone who has gone through this.Yeha a beat down is making you feel good for the moment but if he is acting like this then he needs more help than you can give.

Answer 7

umm make him feel comfortable around you make himtalk about and tell him to let it all out it might work

Answer 8

...right.

Answer 9

is this for real... seriously

Answer 10

raped as in beat up or literally??? 0.o if literally dont dump him give him some time

if u meant beat up then yes dump him hes a wuss

Answer 11

huh?

Answer 12

DONT DUMP HIM! thats so sad. it's not his fault. he was raped and he's emotionally scarred and he's going through a rough time. the best thing to do is to be there for him and eventually he'll be better. and if you dump him it will mean that you are in the relationship for s*x

Answer 13

Um...are you sure this is not just something you made up? Sounds way off to be true. But whatever.

Assuming this is actually true, there is nothing you can do aside from just being there for him. Do not pressure him sexually until he initiates something on his own. Give him time to get past this. Realize that if he's actually emotionally traumatized from this, there may be nothing you can do at all, aside from waiting for lots of time to go by and see where things go at a much later time.  

Answer 14

Maybe you just need to give him sometime. If that happened to you i don't think you would be so keen to sleep with someone. He probably is still overcoming the incident.

Hope this helps.

So no don't dump him yet.

Answer 15

h**l ya you should dump him idk jk. have a good life

Answer 16

now you kno dang on well

u lien.  

bhut it was funny.lol

me my bro nd sis always

say tha name "Bonequisha."

Answer 17

Raped? That's his excuse.

Answer 18

ok i can understand why you would consider braking up with hem because of that bicth that raped hem. butt you need to show hem that you are better then that cuss relationships are not just about s*x. i mean aleast he came to you and told you what had happend. you know have you tried to get hem to go too a doctor it might help you both and church would be good to. and she deserved what she got. lol angel

Answer 19

yesss; i s0 think you shouuld dummp him =)

Answer 20

please someone answer my quesiton, how in the h**l does a guy get raped? If you don't want it then wont the equipment not work???? hhhhmmmmmm mystery

Answer 21

this is pathetic.

Answer 22

A-How is it possible for a girl to rape a girl?

B-If this whole story is true, give him his space and let him do what he wants on his own time. Pressure him into doing anything and he's not going to enjoy it either way.

...But I would check into the story because that sounds ridiculous.

Answer 23

i think you should talk to him one-on-one about how you feel and then see how i goes from there. if he continues then maybe you should spend some time apart. but not break up. yet