Should I dump my boyfriend he makes less money than I do ?

Question

I have my own place , car , work full time and go to school. He has all of the above too but doesnt have a car. I get tired of driving his azz around ...hedoes have a license though. He makes less $$$ than I do and always crying poor mouth. HOwever he is taking lil baby measures and trying to better himself ...he does go to school...should i hang in there....he is a wonderful boyfriend ...help me

Answer 1

well if he has a license then let him drive his self around and at least he is trying because if he didn't love  you he wouldn't try and you may be his inspiration so stick in there and if he just doesn't do anything just leave him like last years phone

Answer 2

Well do you really love him?If you do then hang in there,if you dont then leave him.

Answer 3

You should stick it out money isn't everything. At least he is trying to better himself by going to school. Hang in there it just might pay off in the long run.

Answer 4

The fact that you are asking if you should DUMP him tells me you don't really think he is a good boyfriend at all. I say dump him so he can find someone who would be better for him and you can find a guy with a bigger bank account.

Answer 5

No, but he should dump you. If you are that self- involved and shallow about your relationship he'll find someone else.

Answer 6

So he doesn't have a car, and he makes less money than you. Does that change the fact that he is good to you and cares about you and that you care about him? What if he starts making more than you one day? Would you want him to be considering leaving you because of that? I do not recommend breaking off a perfectly healthy relationship that you are satisfied with just because the person's income is not is not the same as yours. If everyone did that then there would be very few happy couples in the world... one is usually going to make more than the other.

Answer 7

Just admit you are a mile sahead of him and get with someone that more closely matches your ambition. However, that is not to say be a gold digger.

Answer 8

Do you think he doesn't sense your attitude?  Do you think he won't remember that when he's the one making the money?  He's with you because you are the best he can do at the moment.  The more money a guy makes, the more options he has.  You can thumbs down all you want, but that is a fact.  

Answer 9

would you feel differently if it was you who didn't have a car and he drove you around?? and he is a student, he won't always be and i'm sure will have a car oneday, money shouldn't have much to do with love

Answer 10

i guess if you are really that shallow, yes you should

Answer 11

Do you love him?  If the answer is yes, the definately hang in there.  There was one point in time that my husband (then my boyfriend) had a car, but only had $300 a month from his father's life insurance.  He was between jobs and I was working making $400 plus every 2 weeks.  But I loved him and I didn't care.  Because I knew that I wanted to be with him, for richer or poorer.

Answer 12

Please dump him because you don't deserve him. He deserves to find a good woman who will love him and won't even think of dumping him because of money. You don't love him. It's all over your question.

Answer 13

Dump him, now. Please do him this favor. It will allow him to find another girl who cares about him no matter what he has or makes. He deserves better than you.

Answer 14

If you truly love him money shouldn't matter.

Answer 15

wow u are really selfish.

It sounds to me like u are only caring about urself, and not ur boyfriend

do him a favor, leave him now...

Answer 16

offer to sell him your car or loan him some $$$ to buy a car. he'll think you are a wonderful girlfriend ...