Should I email him after he blocked me?

Question

My friend whom ive been romantic with , but not dating, sent me a one-sentence email saying he cant talk to me anymore... and then he removed me from his myspace page and blocked me so i cant email him.

His email said:

"ummm....we cant talk anymore....dont ask."

Should I send him this email which ive prepared in response:

tim i care about you more than you will ever know. i hope you never forget that!

your e-mail caught me by surprise since just a few days ago you told me I MISS YOU and that you wanted to CHILL with me after foster care.

i think you would be confused too if everything was going well, then all of a sudden the person you cared about "mysteriously" no longer wanted you in their life anymore.

it sounds like someone told you not to talk to me anymore, and block me, because the Tim i know would NEVER be so cold and mean. i still cant believe you blocked me! lol

i know you dont want to hurt me, and i can understand why you might want me out of the picture because of jason, but sending a one-sentence email saying "don't ask" is really awful. would you wanna be treated that way?

if you knew how heartbroken and sick-to-my-stomach ive been you would tell me whats up.

i feel like you should have trusted me enough to tell me the truth instead of having me go insane and worry what the real reason is. it just ends up creating an awkward situation which could have easily been resolved peacefully.

im sorry for emailing you from the backdoor, but i had to get this off my chest.

i dont know what else to say tim. i will always be here for you, and in my heart i hope you will call me when you get out of foster care, but for now i will respect your decision and give you all the space you need... i really miss you.

peace

Answer 1

no..........

Answer 2

well, it may be his girlfriend/boyfriend that you never met, or maybe he was just kidding all the time, or maybe someone caught him chatting with you. Let some time pass. Then, try again- if you still wanna do it.  

Answer 3

It sounds like it's pretty complicated between you two.  Usually this means someone else is in the picture and gave him an altimatum.  If someone has treated you like this and it doesn't seem normal, chances are he was told to do it.  Chances are they don't "love/care" for you enough to stand up for you like you need.

Chances are, you need to move on.  Tough, but maybe true.

Answer 4

yeah go for it. it is a really good email, which seems to express your feelings well. just take out all the words in caps.

good luck :)

Answer 5

If he has blocked you from sending email, perhaps you could write this out and mail it to him.  He may not read it if he knows it's from you -- then again, maybe he will -- but at least you will have gotten this off your chest and start to have some closure.

Best wishes.  Break ups are so painful.