I am currently engaged. I have a big problem though, and am not sure if I need to get out of this relationship. First of all my fiancé loves to watch p**n movies, loves to look out porno magazines, looks at p**n on the internet....he knows I don't like it. So he keeps his magazines hidden under the sink...he keeps all his porno DVDs (which he has a ton of) hidden in his closet....and whenever he gets a chance when I am out of the house he looks at whatever he can. He is not a very sexual person with me....has trouble sexually...probably because of his age 48...smokes...drinks....but he is very affectionate towards me in the way of hugging...holding hands..Telling me how much he loves me etc. I have gathered that he loves to look at p**n not so much to get off ...but because he loves to look at women...especially pretty women....he loves the teen porno movies and magazines. I feel totally uncomfortable with this....I could never compare to these women...and even if he promised not to look at it again...I can't stop the fact that he likes to look right?? Other than that he is the best boyfriend...supportive...caring....will do anything I ask. But I just feel I can't live with this. And him keeping this stuff secretive from me (and I know every hiding place etc.) Are all men like this with a fascination with looking at pretty women...he stares at them in public too.????please help!!
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