Should I follow thru with some body "enhancements" I'm considering? Boob job and lip plump?

Question

Background: I work as an admin (along with another girl, Gemma) at an engineering firm, we support a bunch of young engineers/draftsmen. There are 32 of them in a huge "bull pen". And I must say they do not fit the geek profile (well a few do..haha), about half are hot as h**l and me and Gemma let's just say we pine for them..hah. So here's my problem...gemma and me are both cuties but in the last year she got a boob job and had her lips "plumped" and now the guys cannot leave her alone...I like gemma, we hang and stuff but I am sooo jealous/envious...I am really considering having teh same done...what do you guys think?? It's not like I don't get asked on dates it's that not the guys that I want are asking me. What should I do?? Go for it?? I really want to...

Answer 1

Ultimately the decision is in your hands. You can go through with it, but I hope you reconsider the reasons and consequences.

Getting a boob job and your lip plumped might make guys go ga-ga over you but is superficiality what you're aiming for? I'm not condemning these "enhancements", but merely thinking of them as something that should be done if it's direly needed, like for example after a car crash and you'd like to some reconstruction done. And I'm sure they are plenty of guys who appreciate real b*****s and less than pouty lips. Nevertheless, if it makes you feel better about yourself, then go ahead! Good luck!

Answer 2

I am close to someone who got implants for a legitmate medical reason.  It was expensive, as I'm sure you already know.  There were two things that she absolutely did not expect.  First was a loss of sensation in her n|pples, which was disappointing because she used to enjoy being kissed and touched there.  The other was that certain motions, such as opening a jar, hurt for a very long time afterward -- like two or three years.

As for me, I have to say that they don't feel natural anymore.  :-(

In her case, it was a necessity.  In yours, it isn't.  Guys like all sizes, believe me.  When I was dating, I went out with everything from A-cup to D-cup.  The A-cup tended to make a lot of disparaging remarks about herself, but every one of my friends thought she was very s**y, and so did I.  

So, speaking as a guy, I'm not saying to do it or not, but I wanted you to be aware that it's absolutely not necessary.  Why not spend the thousands of dollars on nice hair and great clothes instead?  And also, guys are attracted to women who are confident and have a good outlook on life.  That's a lot more important to us than the Dolly Parton look.  

Answer 3

Most men do not like fakeness in the long term.  So maybe they seem to flock to your friend because she looks good, but they probably aren't looking to marry her.  You sound beautiful to begin with, so why do you want to take a chance (there is a huge chance it could go wrong) with ruining a good thing?  Fake b***s and lips rarely look natural, most often it is very obvious the person has had work done.  Use that money on something more worthwhile!!

Answer 4

no be happy the way God made you.

Answer 5

do it

Answer 6

if that's what you really want to do ... then go for it but to me you're just wasting money... you just have to have the confidence and go up to the guys don't depend on b***s ...