Should I forgive my friend?

Question

Me and my friend had a major fight and have not spoken in 3 months. As far as I'm concerned, it's over, but recently my ex-friend spoke with one of our mutual friends and she confided in her that she misses me terribly. When the mutual friend encouraged her to call me....no phone calls yet and that has been 2 weeks ago? Now our mutual friend thinks it's my place to call her. What do you think?

Answer 1

You don't say what the fight was about. If she was in the wrong, and I still felt badly I wouldn't speak to her. It's been 2 weeks and she hasn't called you. That would be my signal to let the ex friendship go. By the way, your friend shouldn't be in the middle - it's not her business in the first place. It's between the 2 of you.  

Answer 2

you should forgive your friend because he or she might have faught with you but in their heart you are still their friend no matter what. i remember once when me and my friend had a major fight he hit me and i hit him but i felt bad for what i did and he felt bad for what he did and we were friends again. being not a friend is just wasting time of your life because that fight will stay in your head no matter what and you will miss your friend trust me .

my advice be friends agian !

Answer 3

yes i think that you guys should talk. she probaly didnt call bcuz she was scared that you still hated her or something. if you know that she misses you then you take the first step and call her.

Hope this Helps!

Answer 4

well ive had a similar problem

if you were in the wrong, thwn yes, it might be a good idea to call her

if it was her fault, she needs to grow some and call you.

instead of telling this mutual friend

but ut still all boils down to what the fight was over..

Answer 5

yes i would forgive her i wouldn't become best friends with her because maybe you might get screwed over again...i would call her and maybe go out for lunch or sumthing if she is a good friend she will understand and u will fight through it.....this has happened to me and i swore to myself that i wouldn't call her but i did and it turned out well we're not best friends but at least were not enemies...

Answer 6

of course you should forgive her.  there's no point in holding a grudge with eachother.  it will do absolutely nothing for you except bring bad unto you.  i promise once you let go of it all, good things will come your way.  be the bigger person, step up, & go talk to her.

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Answer 7

Yes, you should forgive her because u may need her someday. I know your thinking I will never need her...ect but u might. I had the same situation & I called her and now things r ok between us, its better then fighting just because u forgive her doesnt mean u 2have to be friends again it means u r letting go of the past and moving on.