Should I get a boob job..and when??

Question

I am 17 (18 in 4 months)..I have a pretty face (at least ppl tell me), I am pretty thin, I have a good personality but the only thing is I don't have b***s. I mean NO b***s. I feel like it is holding me back from getting a boyfriend because we all know that a guy wants at least some b***s and dont try to tell me otherwise I am not dumb. I just don't understand why I don't have b***s I am the flattest person I have ever seen especially for my age..I might as well be considered a guy I am so flat, its disgusting!!! I am never going to get a boyfriend or anything :( its really depressing..so what is your opinion on breast implants for people who have absolutely no b***s and is there any way my b***s could possibly still grow? I started my period 2 years ago and my b***s have never even grown like theres no fat there they are tiny! :(

Answer 1

Your feelings are understandable, given the boob-centric culture we live in.  I'm sorry you are so unhappy about your body.  Keep in mind that although you are almost 18, you haven't really finished developing.  That's why very few reputable plastic surgeons will perform breast enhancement on someone your age.  Please consider giving yourself a couple years before you make such a drastic alteration to yourself.  Use this time to decide if this is something YOU want, instead of something you feel you must to do fit in.  Some things you might want to think about:

Not every guy is a boob man - some guys couldn't care less if you're big or small breasted.  How you feel about yourself is a lot more important.  

Breast implants are expensive.  The procedure is painful and puts you at risk for serious complications - infection, bleeding, scar tissue formation, etc.  

You may not get the results you want.  

So think about it, seriously, before you rush into anything.  Talk to some women who have had the surgery.  It can be very enlightening.

Good luck to you

Answer 2

First of all don,t get a boob job just to get a guy. If you want a boob job it should only be to make YOU feel better about yourself. I,m a guy and trust me...guys don,t go out with girls just coz they have big b***s. We may look...and that,s natural..but we don,t think " i just have to date this chick coz she has a big rack".

Answer 3

h**l no

Answer 4

i completely agree with drifter. ok.

i'm 18, asian, and i barely have any. i've considered getting a boob job, but really.... to do something like that just to get a guy? i have a boyfriend and he is pretty happy with me. as long as you can be confident about yourself. but i guess it boils down to this: you should try working on self esteem issues (harmless) first before you undergo the knife.

Answer 5

No sponging off the startes benefits can be fine also, education is important too. Dont let any1 presure you into getting a job, its your decision, the people who call you a boob are misinformed. Clearly!

Answer 6

I had no b***s whatsoever even after I graduated high school, but around 20 or so they were just there. I typically wear 36B but they're the perfect size for my figure and they're perky.. I don't have to worry about saggy b***s and back problems :) I used to want a boob job but I'm so glad I never got one, it's just not worth it. Don't give up hope yet, you still have time!!

Answer 7

Well for one, you started not too long ago and sometimes it takes a while for your b***s to grow afterwards. Second, your genetics say no. I would wait until you are atleast twenty-one before you make any final decisions. Further more, I'd make a change that isn't TOO much, like a nice full B cup (the average female is 36B) instead of a full blown D.

If you had a little more weight it sounds like you might be a A or B atleast, but who the heck wants to force themselves into reversed-anorexia?

Answer 8

girls stop growing around 19 to 20 years old.

so i think you still have time.

Answer 9

This is a very serious procedure and a lot of things could go wrong. They're not permanent, anyway, you'd have to get new ones put back in eventually. Plus, usually guys can figure it out anyway because fake b*****s don't feel or act the same as real ones. You really should love you for who you are, and not worry about what others think. You'll get a guy eventually; some guys just like girls with small b*****s, same as guys who like big women or big butts. If you really are worried about it and want to boost your confidence, I suggest you get a well padded bra or one filled with water/oil. This gives you "the look" without paying thousands of dollars and putting your whole body at risk.