Should I get a different car and/or move? My ex is vendictive.?

Question

Should I get a different car and/or move? My ex is vendictive.?

My ex is very vendictive. He put a live large snake in my house for starters. His ex-wife found her car was missing and in the river six months after the divorce. I was told he is very sneaky and will do things that cannot be traced more than likely. How can I protect myself? I need realistic answers. I have a restraining order.

Answer 1

getting another car is not the answer, he will know you have another car. Make sure the local police are aware of your concerns. Just be very observant of who and what is going on around you. Depending on your local laws, you may want to consider getting a large dog for protection. one that does not like strangers. If you starting running, you will always have to run.  

Answer 2

Get a PO Box and start having your mail sent there for starters.  Yes, you should move.  But again, I would get all my mail sent to the po box so it will be harder to trace you.  Its VERY affordable.  I hope you are recording everything he does in a journal??  Get lojack for your car so the second its stolen it will be tracked.  Dont argue with him at all, you need to BORE him away, if possible.