Should I get a divorce Yes or No?

Question

Ok, I married my husband about 15 years old. I told him to leave 10 years old because he is constantly lies and use to punish me if I did not listen to him. I do have children but they are not by him. He is a foreign with a PhD degree. I do not really love him anymore. This is the second time that I have been married to him. We got remarried two days after our divorce decree.

He is almost 15 years older than I am.

People tell me that I should divorce him but what do you think I should do either divoce him or not?

Answer 1

You should divorce him but you better get proof of the mistreatment so you can get a quicker divorce and alimony.  Do your research on the matter and get you a good divorce attorney.

Answer 2

I think that you answered your own question! Why stay married to someone if you don't love them?

Answer 3

You will excuse me for saying so, but you two are a train wreck.

Good luck

Answer 4

i vote divorce

move on

and do not make the same mistake again

Answer 5

We can not answer this for you. This has to be answered by you. You have to live with your decision. We don't know you or him, I think you should do some soul searching and figure out if you're in fact better off with or with out him. Good Luck, I think you're gonna need it:)

Answer 6

I don't understand something.  Why would you marry him a second time if you didn't love him?  

1. You don't have children by him.

2. You don't love him.

3. He lies.

This is a question you need to ask yourself. And deep down inside you know the answer.  

Answer 7

What do you think ? That's the only thing that's important.

Answer 8

Seems to me like if you were to get divorced, you would probably end up marrying him again. Why bother with the divorce. You need to try to work on your problems and get some type of help with your marriage.

Answer 9

I don't think you should divorce him. He is your husband and marriage is forever. God will take care of your every need, let Him work this out. Trust God b/c He knows what He's doing. Romans 8;28 says "....all things work together for good to them that love God..."  Wait on Him and trust Him, you won't be disappointed. God bless you and good luck.

Answer 10

Yes, it seems that your relationship isn't going nowhere, it doesn't seem to get any better, if you married him a second time and it's still the same or worst, think of yourself and your children, enjoy your life and stop wasting it on him.  It's going to be hard, but you have already gone through it just be strong and stand by your decision.  Good Luck!

Answer 11

Marriage is just a game...There are no consequences. Just divorce him...if that does not work out...Re-Marry him...There is no way to lose. Take Care

Answer 12

why don't you just take a poll?? it's your life, do what you want with it. it seems like you have already made up your mind and you are stalling to go through with it. whatever happened to for better for worse?!?!