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Should I give her a piece of my mind........??

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My partner went to a school reunion and bumped into his mates ex-girlfriend Emma. They swapped numbers and the following night she went round my partner's for a catch-up drink. Me and my fella had fallen out (over him going to the reunion!!) and were generally going through a difficult patch, he told her this and she obviously thought she would swoop in on an opportunity and became obsessed with me fella!!

She would call him and call him, text him, knock on his door when she knew I wasnt there.........in the end I lost my patience and told him to tell her to f**k off, otherwise I would do some damage.

After about 2 months of ignoring her texts, she finally got the hint. (Emma would text him saying "I hope she knows how lucky she is!!, "You know where I am!" and general s**t like that!!

Anyway.........Emma has now got back with her ex. (my partner's mate) and she has told her ex that her and my partner were seeing each other??? Now I have understandably questioned my partner about this, but I do understand that she has tried this rumour with another of my partner's mates and she does suffer with depression........Needless to say, me and my partner now live together and have gone from strength to strength since then and trust one another 100%.

HOWEVER, my partner doesnt see his friend very much now, because he is dating this vindictive little cow. They have been best friends for years, Is this Fair?

We have just had a house warming and my partner didnt invite his friend because of me not liking Emma. I have come to an agreement with my partner that I will put up with her in public places, but I do not want her in my house.......i think thats fair??

I have had to put up with her twice in pubs and she hasn't had the guts to look at me ONCE. My partner has asked me to not say anything to her to show him up........What you reckon? Should I give her a peice of my mind when alone with her in the toilets?????????

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  1. He probably did shag her...

    IMO


  2. i think its best to just leave it in the past, i know you feel upset that this women has been lieng but, if it comes out if could cause problems

    with you and your man.

    as you said your bloke doesn't see his mate much so its not like you are in her company much so just accept that it happened but don't let it bother you as then she would have one!

    the fact is you ane your man are happy and thats it  

  3. Don't bother, if you do, she'll know that she got to you.

  4. Only if you can spare it. lol!

  5. HECK YES!!!!

    It will give you peace of mind and let her know that it's unacceptable. Just do it privately, in the ladies room, and if she says anything or tries to complain about it, deny everything.

    Good luck. Give that little cow the talking to she deserves!

  6. Really don't think she is worth it...  You're obviously better than that.  Don't stoop to her level.  You are the one that is happy and she is to be pitied (and ignored!)

  7. No, don't give her the satisfaction. By giving no reaction to her she's getting the message that she is no threat to you and  that will seriously p**s her off. Just to annoy her though why don't you be really nice to her, totally freak her out lol.

  8. Only if the opportunity presents itself otherwise leave it in the past she will only make further trouble for you  in the future. And don't do anything to her to get you arrested! She's not worth it.

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