Should I give it a try?

Question

I got dumped by my girlfriend about two months ago and I have still not gotten over it! I know that I still her love too much and it just seems impossible to not think of her and completely ignore her. I really want to get back together and so I did some research online. I came to know that there are some online books and stuff that help you get back together with your girlfriend. But on the other hand there are also ppl who tell me that there are a very few chances to get her back and stay in a relationship for a long time. About 25% of couples get back together but only 2% of them stay committed to their promises. I m too confused, should I try to get her back or just move on in life and force myself to forget her....Plz Help!!!

Answer 1

Talk to her about how you feel and if she has any negative feedback, I'd say drop it and try your hardest to get over her. Because you don't want to try to force it upon her, especially after there's already been a breakup.  

Answer 2

Well this really isnt just about you and what you want.. IT is alos about what she wants.... She dumped you, so how do you know she wants to get back together with you? did she tell you that ??

I understand what you are trying to accomplish and I think you are sweet, looking into books and stuff, BUT, a relationship takes TWO people and they both must want it. Sorry to tell you, that your best bet is communication with her if you can, if she is gone and she is done, there is no books that can do magic.. Sorry, but you shouldnt have a problem finding someone new... you are caring and sweet : )