Should I go on this weekend with her?

Question

Could you help me out here with a serious question. An ex-colleague has invited me on a weekend with 9 or ten other people. Most of the people are single but there are two couples. Shes really nice and its in a beautiful area with a lake and its own landing stage. That sounds great to me.

The catch - its a "party weekend"in a large Villa they've rented with interaction between the guests.

To be honest I'm very tempted - but this is totally new to me

should I take part?

Thanks! Arthur

PS: I've never done this sort of thing before - thats the only reason I'm hesitating - but I am quite open about such things

Answer 1

You need to ask yourself what you're going to regret more. Taking part or passing up the opportunity?

Answer 2

Ok so what do you mean by "party weekend?"

Answer 3

well I think if you are into that kind of thing then go...but If not I think that you shouldn't go because you will only make yourself miserable, and since you are here asking us I don't really believe you are into that...go if you are open to such things may be quite an experience for you come back and tell us how it was.

Answer 4

Well if u are single and are interested...she sounds like fun...I'd say go for it!  You only live once!  Remember protection......

Answer 5

As it is an ex-colleague not a colleague then at least there won't be any embaressing moments at work if you do go and it is not your thing.

Why not go. You don't have to take part in anything that is not your thing.

But you may discover something that you really like.

As long as it is all consenting adults then I don't really see the harm.

Just make sure that your limits/ passwords are noted.

Have fun!!

Answer 6

if there is no chance of you having to work with her again go for it

Answer 7

By 'Party weekend' do you mean swinging?

Answer 8

Yea go.

Answer 9

don't get involved ! you'll be stuck in some villa wondering what inter action means to these people , some of those creeps only go along for gossip , you might be open and most of them prophes to be open but they are usually , " thanks for sharing creeps " and all one way sharing .

Answer 10

Am I correct in assuming a party weekend with guest interaction means having s*x with multiple partners during this time?   If so, this woman doesn't sound "nice" to me - she sounds like a procurer of sexual favours, a.k.a., a Madam and is using the setting as bait.

I wonder where your morality-level is that you would be tempted to do this(?) and, of course, you're quite open about it ... most men are quite open when it means s*x with no strings.  

Can compromising your integrity be bought by something of so little value?