Should I go or not...?

Question

Okay.. kind of hard to explain but I'm gonna try. So there is guy my friend and I use to talk to all the time at work, and we all hung out a couple times outside work, well then he got a girlfriend and we all stopped hanging out cause obviously hedidn'tt want his gf getting jealous which was cool, then my friend got a boyfriend anyways, so kind of stopped all of us from kicking it. Well anyways, I no longer work there anymore.. and I never chat it up with him anymore cause I guess we just dont. My friend does though cause they both still work together.. alright anywho.. seen him about a month ago.. hung out again with about 4 other peeps from my old job ( he no longer as a gf).. and now this one chick that I was friends with from work but we just never hung out outside of it was like we should hang out again.. Just me, her, and this guy and so I was like alright.. and apparently its actaully going to go through that we are going to kick it tomorrow.. but I dont know if I should go or not. I kno this one girl likes him, and I like him as a friend cause he is hella cool, but we never hang out, just cause I happened to see him at a company picnic, so its like.. I dont kno if they are just wanting to hang out so someone else is there or if they actually want to just hang out just cause.. becuase I guess the two of them could always hang out, they see each other everyday at work, so.. im not sure. Its just wierd that he is actually going to kick it with the two of us.. when me and him never talk anymore...but yet the one chick and him i dont think have ever hung out together outside of work either besides the one time after the picnic... So i guess my questions is.. is it wierd he wants to hang out with just the two of us, when he never talks to me anymore, doesnt make the effort, and I dont think the two of them have ever hung out either, but i kno they talk outside work... i just dont want to go and be there just so the two of them can hang out ya kno? I dont kno.. its really hard to explain and im sure everyone is hella confused... haha

Answer 1

well yeh  u shuld go but make what u want abvious so the other girls desont get bothered..  

Answer 2

I think you should go. You said so yourself that he didn't make an effort before, and now he is so he probably wants to hang out with you again. But maybe you should ask the other girl if she does like the guy, so that everything would be clear. And try not to lose touch with your old friends because they knew you then, and it would be nice to have them know you as you change.