Should I go out with friends ex-boyfriend?

Question

I need advice with this please

So my friends ex-bf started talking to me and he happended to have asked me out but I said I'll think abt it because he went out with my close friend and she still has feeling for him and I like him alot but I don't wanna hurt her. I checked my mail and I have 20 mails from him asking will you go out with me but I think my friend is mad that I talk to him cuz school didn't open that long but like the day before yestarday we were in lunch and he was sitting the desk infront of my mine and I was facing him and he kept looking at me nonstop and making kissy faces so I I looking at him just flirting across the table and my friend turned around and saw him and I looked at her and saw her from being happy to totally mad and the rest of the day she didn't talk to me that much. Every time he sees me in the hall he'll come up and give me a hug. I asked abt why he broke up wit her and he said that he doesn't like her blah blah blah...I really like him, his the coolest guy I ever met and am not just in the moment and saying it and am waiting till marriage to have s*x and this is weird but he is too and like everyother guy I been with use to be like your waitin til marrige really well why! why don't we just get naked.. I wanna say yes soo bad .

What should I do

Answer 1

Well first off.. Do you care about your friend at all?? I mean really every girl knows that its wrong to date your friends ex in any occasion. There are other guys out there who will wait for marriage and plus you see how its hurting your friend so why do it?

Thats' just my opinion. Your obviously going to do what you want to do seeing as your already said you wanna say yes!  

Answer 2

You know the right answer to this.. no guy is worth losing a friend over.  

Answer 3

I was going to say to make sure your friend is ok with it,if you can go out with him

.......but she likes him so there is no point in asking her!

Answer 4

if she is your close freind and she still has feelings for him then you should not go out with him.

but you could talk to her about it maybe she will understand, you need to make a decision: having a good freind who will stick with you or a guy who may or, more likely, may not stay with you like a freind would

you can decide

Answer 5

No way. Don't do it. What makes you think he really likes you. Maybe he is just trying to make your friend jealous. It's not worth losing a friend over a guy.

Also, if she was a close friend; you as a good friend would not even consider it.

Just trust me on this. I went through this in High School. I lost a friend and at the end... the guy and I broke up and he ended up being a jerk face. It's not worth, you'll just get bad karma.

EDIT: SLIT YOUR WRIST??

I think you need help. Oh my goodness go see a therapist or counselor. You are just not a bad friend but a horrible one.

Answer 6

do it. if u like him so much just do it. ur friend will have to understand that u cant just hold back ur feelings because shes having a little tantrum and being a jerk. she needs to get over it. if he doesnt like her too bad.

Answer 7

well ive been there you can ask her but its againtst girl code to go out with ur bffs ex but any good friend would understand that you like him and say yes and friends come and go plus life is too short so go for it

Answer 8

uhm WOAH.

someones a bit obsessed..

but no you cant go out with him, hes your friends ex! you cant do that!

i wish that wasnt the rule but it is. i really like my best friends ex and ive liked him for the entire year (in grade 8) but i cant date him.

so your just gonna have to get over it.  

Answer 9

The you can't go out wit ur friends ex is stupid as $h!t go out wit the dude if u want

I would go out wit my friends ex and not give a $h!t they broke up for God's Sake

Answer 10

ok once your friend dates him he is off limits, its unwritten rule in womens friendship