Well I've been friends with this guy for 2 years now, and yesterday he tells me that he's liked me the whole time. We're going into grade 10 this September. He said that he was going to ask me out at grade 8 graduation but he didn't because I was into some other guy (who I cried all night over). He was then going to ask me out when we were in the same class second semester, but I had a boyfriend at the time and he thought he had "lost his chance" to be with me. Apparently he just got a job to make money to take me out. So I met up with him yesterday and he broke the news to me and I was shocked. So we sat down to discuss it, i had told him that I was okay with it but I truly wasn't because I have a date on Thursday with someone else. I'm not going to cancel on this guy, so he says it's okay if I'm with him and he says he'll go on a "waiting list". So we're talking and within two minutes of meeting he asks me if I'm still a virgin, just because he and a couple of friends were trying to figure out who were and were'nt virgins in the 8th grade. One of them said " I don't know... maybe she already lost it" and from that he assumes I wasn't. I'm not a virgin (I lost it in January.... it was a big mistake please don't judge me on it) but I found the question extremely inappropriate for a situation like this one. I never told him if I was or wasn't I just got mad. He kept complimenting me on my body saying I should model and yada yada. Then he says he's not just into my looks he likes me because "I'm smart and pretty". He says he's not trying to make any sexual comments on me because he knows it makes everything awkward. But then he says to me "This will make me more comfortable with you, but you might be less comfortable, but can I touch your chest? (b*****s)". I refused to let him politely. I let him hold my hand for a bit, and he kept commenting on my complection. Then he asks to kiss me, I (shouldn't have) let him. He used tongue on me, which I don't go for with a first kiss. The kiss wasn't good at all. When we left he didn't want me to tell anyone about it and we should wait until we're ready to open up about our relationship. The entire thing felt wrong. I was very flattered with everything he said, but I honestly don't want to be his girlfriend. I've just known him as a friend and if I had known about this earlier, maybe I would say yes. I find him immature. Is it any wonder I'm with older guys most of the time??? I have to reply to him about everything after my date on Thursday. Should I say yes and have a fake relationship? Or should I try to let him down gently and be friends instead? If I do go out with him, I know it won't last very long. Thank you for any answers I highly appreciate it :D.
Tags: