I'm currently having problems with my brother (aged 20) - he's violent and abusive.
My mother can't do much as she is equally scared, so she therefore sticks up for him and hasn't taken much action. The police have been involved several times and no matter who my brother talks to, he never seems to change.
This has been going on for a while now and maybe a Hostel will be a new start, away from the fear and the controlling, abusive environment. I'm just not sure what to expect at a Hostel. I don't know if it's the right step to take, I will find it hard to live without my mum because I love her very much. However, maybe I need to do this for myself.
I'm 16 and starting A-levels soon... I want to be able to have full concentration on my studies.
I was advised by an Asian women's organisation to go to a refuge but I think I would be better off at a Hostel .
I've asked for help many, many times... From teachers, who got social services involved - i've basically tried everything I could to help with this problem but noting has been severely done. I've even asked my mum to throw him out but she said that she can't as he's her son.
I have told my cousin's ex girlfriend who I see as my own sister. She lives in Canada and is kindly going into the option of me staying with her. But nothing has been confirmed and I need to make my own decisions in the mean time.
Any help will be much appreciated! Thank you!
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