My ex husband is getting remarried in November and would like our two daughters(will then be 1 1/2 and almost 3) to be flower girls(don't comment on the ages, it's his and his fiance's wedding, not mine). I want them to be too because they rarely see him because of the custody arrangement and since he lives in Tennessee while we live in Connecticut, it would be good for them.
However, my ex is talking about having his sister fly them Tennessee's(she lives in CT and I know her)when she flies down for the wedding in November. I trust my ex's sister, it's just I've never had them fly without me before. I'd rather fly down with them and then send them to the wedding with their dad. I know my 1 1/2 year old would hate being seperated from me for more then a weekend(they'd be there for two weeks, getting measured for dresses and practicing and stuff like that). I can take time off of work to come and stay in a hotel with them. I wouldn't go to the wedding, their father or his fiance would pick them up from the hotel the day of and I'd drive them to get the dresses fitted and to the rehersals and my husband would drive them back.
Should I go or should I stay? My ex's first ex-wife(this will be his third wedding)is letting their 8 yr. old daughter fly with his sister, but they know each other very well.
Should I stay or go with them?
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