Should I go? yes or no? so confused.?

Question

My fiance is so confusing me, He tells me I need to work more, So my boss called and asked if I could work Saturday and I agree'd since I told her no the last two times she called, and I didn't want to have her not call to work anymore. I completely forgot that we were supposed to be going to his grandmothers this weekend. I need money for school stuff, I tell him we arent married yet that he doesnt need to help me financially. (I told my boss no, the last two times because of my friends wedding, and than again because my fiance didnt want me to work so I can spend time with him).

Should I call my boss back and tell her that I cant work on saturday?

Or should I just go and let him deal with it?

Answer 1

Just go....It looks bad when you keep telling her NO!!! It will look like youre not a team player.

Answer 2

Definitely go to work, considering you called and asked. You can always visit his grandmother another weekend.

Answer 3

Is he attempting to control what you do already and you are not even married to him. look out in the future. It sounds like he wants you to work more but only when it does not interfere with what he has planned.  

Answer 4

Go to work. You have committed yourself and your boss, who will be expecting you to work.  

Answer 5

I would work because if you call off she may never call again and then the opportunity for future "extra" hours will be lost.

As far as him "dealing," any mature adult would understand!

Answer 6

It's up to you. How important is this job to you? Do you work full time and he's asking you to just fill in? Is this the normal way to get hours in this establishment?

Only you can answer it. If you choose not to go, you could lose your job, especially if this is how things are managed at this job.

Answer 7

He needs to just deal with it.  If you call back now and say you can't work your boss isn't going to be happy with you and probably will never call you again to work.

Answer 8

Yeah you should go in.....it's not good to tell your boss one answer then change on her.

Answer 9

You should go to work since you already agreed to go, he can go to his grandma's without you. You're right, you're not married yet and he shouldn't be telling you what to do such as that you need to work more...does he work? Maybe he should work a little more...

Answer 10

you have to show up to work. do not flip flop on your boss. bad!

Answer 11

I would work since you already told your boss you would...

Answer 12

wow. everyone says goto work. but what if it was him going to work and you made plans with him. what would you like him todo, goto work or be with you? treat people like you want tobe treated.