Should I go2 his place or not?Yes then how?

Question

Ok I guess I messed up badddddddlly. But you guys can decide. I have a friend of mine lets name him guy1. and he got some soft corner for me from the begining. actually he only told me. in the begining i dnt feel anything for him bt then slowly i started feeling and i told him and he said he doenst feel same for me and i stopped my self respecting his feelings. this is i guess 6 months before.thenw e started talking normally.

I moved in to the new place and went out of town and didnt come online for a while may 15 days and then he calls me that where r u? how r u? ur nt calling me stuff lik that. I told him i just moved in and i dnt have internet wid me so I couldnt come online. I dont want to tell him that I went out to see doctor and I have surgury in the end of this month, cz i dnt want his symathy and i knw he doesnt giv a d**n abt it. so i didnt tell him. That nite we talk and make plan to meet next day. I said clearly in the nite call me in the morning and I will come to ur place. as I dont like to goto someone's place If i wont get proper welcome.

Now the next day morning i was waiting for his call till 12 and he didnt call me. I went to my another friend's place and came online ard 2 and ask him why u didnt call me and he said he was waiting for my call. I am lik u asked me to call me and all those misunderstanding leads me to high tempo.cz that morning I really woke up early and got ready just to meet him. and this misunderstanding messed up everything. he asked me r u coming... i said i m having lunch. may b i will come after lunch.

And after lunch suddenly i was feeling tired. It started paining me and i didnt want to tell him. he asked me again i said no idnt want to come. he really got mad on me. he is like ur just too much ego. i told him i m really tired cant make it up bt he was really angry. at 5 pm i agained call him and asked him whether he is at home or nt and turned out his friend gonna come to his place.

I am feeling very bad as i hurt him. I can also call in the morning to avoid this all. bt i didnt call waiting his call in the begining and then in the ego. I am sure if i will tell him i want to meet you he will surely says he is busy or something. I know him. i was just thinking may b this firday i will tell him as i dnt hav internet can i come to ur place and finish my homework and stuff. bt tht sounds somewat cheap. i m nt like that. bt i knw if i will ask directly he wills ays no. he is kinda weired.and i dnt want to tell him regarding surgery.

Answer 1

Sounds like this guys got a big ego problem. Seriously, does he think your whole life revolves around meeting him? Don't run after him. Let him ask you to come over. When he does, tell him that you felt hurt that he got so angry at you, and that too only cos you weren't feeling too well. (You needn't let him know about your surgery if you don't want to.) If you tell him that you'd like to come over, and he just says no, that's going to make his ego even bigger. Trust me, guys like this need to do a little pursuing themselves :)