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Should I hang out with a guy I have absolutely no interest in?

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He's asked me a million times, I've managed to tell him no gently many many times.

Should I just break down and say yes to hanging out?

He hasn't seemed to have gotten the idea yet. What are some things I can do to get my point across *nicely* whilst hanging out?

What do I do? Talk about other guys?

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  1. Just be natural,go out with him and have a good time. if youve said no so many times then he should know you dont like him


  2. He made h**l alot of effort to ask you out a million times.

    Give him a chance and you might start to like him u never know.

    tell him "I'll go out with you only once and if i don't like it then thats it"

  3. Just don't hang out with him.  You'll only end up hurting him.  Say you don't think it'll workout, rather hurt him now then later when he falls for you even more.


  4. No harm in trying

  5. No, you'll just end up hurting him. If you don't want to hurt him by continually saying no, saying yes will just prolong the hurt but in the end crush him. And if he's bugging you so much, then be mean about it. There's no way to do it nicely, so just do it.  

  6. Just hang out with him once and see what happens. I think he is that person who wants at least one shot to going out with you. Just give him that chance at least. If there is still no interest... just move on

  7. Talk about how much you hate it when guys keep asking you out...

  8. maybe hang out with him so you can get a chance to let him know nicely that you just see him as a friend and like hanging out but you just don't have those feelings for him. Maybe once you tell him in person one on one he'll get the point ..i hope so anyways but i know it hard letting people down but to have to do it over and over again must be a drag!!

  9. Tell him only this one time, so you can get to understand that we are not alike.

    You never know, everything can happen.

    Good Luck

  10. Tell him it's been fun, but I gotta run!  But seriously, trust your gut instincts.. there is something about this guy you don't like.  For one, he can't take no for an answer so that should tell you a little something about him.  Yes it's flattering to have someone pursue you, but why can't he take no for an answer.  He should respect your decision if he is mature enough.  Otherwise I would say to him that you have thought about it carefully, and you just don't see you and him together in the future and that it wouldn't be fair to give him false hopes.  Good luck.

    tell him that you are firm about your decision.  

  11. don't hang out with him that's just going to give him false hope.  just tell him that he is a nice guy but you not interested in him "that" way the next time he asks you out.

  12. Treat him like he's just a buddy, which means yes talk about other guys.  I've had to do this many times when guys just don't get a clue.  If you treat them like they are one of the girls they'll back off and catch a clue.

  13. Say no; let him know its not the end of the world.. And ignore him. Tell him you can only be a friend and nothing more. Tell him you like someone else... That will do it...  

  14. Just tell him you don't think of him as more than a friend.

    Unless that's all he wants to be and you just don't find him friend worthy.

    If he is asking you to hang out in a romantic sense, then I would definitely tell him "I'm sorry, but you're just not my type of guy, and I don't see us being involved in a romantic way."  

    Beating around the bush isn't  going to get him to stop asking.

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